hachnasas kallah

I unfortunately plony almony am not supported by anyone, and have been struggling to support myself for the last 6 years when i was abandoned by my parents. I am trying to plan, with my Kallah, all the details of the engagement and of the wedding. I am reaching out for help because I am attemptimg to pursue my dream of going into chinuch. After my monthly bills for rent, food, gas, dates, etc, I don't have enough left for my basic wedding necessities. My kallahs mother is in a dire financial situation and cannot afford any part of these purchases.And if you can pleas help me in any way it would help me tremendously thank you all!