The Becker Family - Honoring Tobias Cade Becker

It is with a heavy, heavy heart that I share this news. 

On December 13th, 2022, this world that could not keep our Tobias safe sent him on his journey home, dying by suicide. 

We will spend a lifetime remembering a life lived beautifully and fully, but must wrap it all up in to his services. Honoring all that he was, and still
is, seems entirely impossible, but with these funds we will try our hardest to show him once more, just how extravagantly adored and deeply loved he is. I know that all of us ache to tell him one last time, with violent impossibility. 

He was one thing and everything, in the fullest capacity and all at once. Toby was a son, and is reunited with his beloved dad, Matt. His mother, Becky, remains earth side with his two younger brothers, Zac and Drew. The greatest title Toby ever held was “big brother”. Toby was a friend and a teammate to so many. Above all else, he was a lover, with a heart so big - he drowned in it. 

Death is a stripping away of all that is not you. Let us remember Toby for all that he was, and not how he left us. Today and everyday, let us be reminded how much it means to tell those you love that their life matters. That they are loved. That they are worthy of a life filled with good things. For our Toby. 

Thank you, on behalf of the Becker Family. 



  • Carissa Bollhoefner
    • $150 
    • 1 yr
  • Mackenna Cassel
    • $332 
    • 1 yr
  • Anonymous
    • $100 
    • 1 yr
  • Ilias Kalessis
    • $25 
    • 1 yr
  • Anonymous
    • $25 
    • 1 yr

Organizer and beneficiary

Addy Stone-Stupka
Manhattan, KS
Becky Becker

Your easy, powerful, and trusted home for help

  • Easy

    Donate quickly and easily.

  • Powerful

    Send help right to the people and causes you care about.

  • Trusted

    Your donation is protected by the  GoFundMe Giving Guarantee.