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my girlfriend is being raped, help her move

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My long-distance girlfriend has been struggling horribly with money for over a year and was forced to go live with her ex-boyfriend who she saw as a friend. This would make it easier for her to get by and i trusted he would take care of her in a way i couldn't. Right before moving she was also mugged at gunpoint with a fired live round next to her ear. Mugger took all of her things worth over $1000 including her phone and all form of bank cards and ID. She was already seriously struggling so this put her into a massive shock, even more trauma, frequent anxiety attacks and dissociation.

Now having been through all this, she has finally told me after 5 grueling months and built up courage to tell me he has been touching her, kissing her, and taking sexual advantage of her ever since she moved in with him all while she is having blackouts due to years of past trauma which he is fully aware of as they dated for 3 years. She has no family or friends for support other than her grandmother who lives several states away, but cant fund her move nor can i as i am struggling surviving myself but will do my best to help her get away from this man.

Our 1 year anniversary was at July 22nd and i am absolutely devastated to find out what has been happening to her while i thought debt was her only enemy. For anyone who have experienced rape themselves or from loved ones' experiences, going to the authorities does little to nothing, especially in USA. She is the KINDEST person i have ever known, how could anyone do this to someone so pure and genuine. She has never harmed anyone, she even let insects outside instead of killing them..

She doesn't want me doing this fundraiser but has given consent. My goal is to at least make it possible for her to move back to her grandmother as long as it's far away from him - or with enough support help her move to me, in Norway. She is the most important person in my life and it is destroying me to see her in this situation where i have literally no way of helping.

I beg of you to help her, even as small as a dollar will help greatly if we come together. Every month, my entire pay will go to helping her. She is already struggling with suicidal thoughts and my life is nothing without her.


if you want to know who you are donating to, i can send a picture of her given the contact info. She wanted to stay anonymous to avoid backlash and further spreading problems but allowed me to at least do this.
IF YOU ALREADY KNOW WHO SHE IS OR WHO THE ASSAULTER IS, PLEASE DO NOT SPREAD THIS INFORMATION AS IT WOULD MAKE THINGS MUCH, MUCH WORSE.
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  • Anonymous
    • kr1,000 
    • 2 yrs
  • Anonymous
    • kr2,000 
    • 2 yrs
  • Anonymous
    • kr3,000 
    • 2 yrs
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    • kr400 
    • 2 yrs
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    • kr200 
    • 2 yrs
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Organizer and beneficiary

Chris Eriksen
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Jon Vegard Bergfjord Torsteinsbo
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