Recovery & surgery help

Hello everyone; I really hate asking for help but me and my family really need it,and I really need to have this surgery, in a summary form I am scheduled to have a total abdominal hysterectomy November 1st also while inside of my abdomen they will be figuring out things with my cancer, it is very important to have this done it could solve many of not all of my health issues that prevent me from being able to function, but that being said I just started my new job and don’t qualify for any benefits for time off and my husband has recently found out because of it being a pre existing condition our critical illness and hospital insurance will also not assist while he needs to be home to help me and our three children for 3 weeks minimum,it would mean the absolute world if you can donate or even just share so I can get this done and be at 100% health wise for my family and so I can recover the right way and not have to rush it to make sure our bills and what not are taken care of,