NOLAN age 5 died auto accident family needs help

My 5 year old grandson Nolan died February 13th in a terrible auto accident he did not survive the impact his mother and his grandmother are devastated his father is still in the hospital and has no clue about what has happened because of his brain injury his two and a half year old little sister has not questioned it yet but I'm sure she will . this will be a big impact financially on the Family because Mom and Grandma aren't going to be able to work right now in their mental state I am is Grandma I am trying to get everything organized for my daughter so we can have some kind of service for this little boy whose life was cut short . Everyone who knew Nolan was completely mesmerized by him he was joyous all the time energetic ornery smart and a pleasure to have around and I was lucky enough that he lived with me for 4 years burying a child is something a parent or grandparent should never have to do . If you have babies or children even grown children find them hug them and tell them how much you love them because you never know when they will be taken away. Thank you if you can help if not just hug your kids and love them this is going to be a long road for this family and I being the grandmother will probably have to be the leader thank you for