Help me cremate my mom Pat Casey

I never thought I would have to do this, but I am super desperate right now.  My beautiful mother and my best friend died unexpectedly on February 15th.  I am extremely greatfull that I spend the day with her and had some great quality time with her.  She had a massive stroke on February 2, 2011 and was paralized on one side of her body.  She fought it as much as she could.  PT and OT.  What a trooper!!  She was a strong headed and determined woman. After coming out of the hospital and another rehab the end of January, she passed away 2 weeks later due to choking at her condo in Ocala, Fl.  She loved her condo and hated hospitals. We did all we could to do to keep her happy and her wishes attended to.
Because of her life insurance policy being less than 2 years old (only by 2 months) the funeral home will not give us an assignment for cremeation expenses and the small life insurance policy will not pay out for 6 months.  I'm reaching out to family and friends to help me.  It breaks my heart knowing she is still waiting to be cremated.   We don't have this cash right now.  I have personally donated thousands of dollars on other people's fundraisers over the years.  Especially in our biker community.   I really need some help.   Thank you all for any donations you can.
  xoxoxo  Nichole