My family is in a crisis

My family has suffered a great loss. Due to the extremity of the events I can not break my promise of discretion but I can not sit around and not help in the situation. This was an unexpected loss and we are all suffering. I would never ask for help if it wasnt an absolute emergency. I ask that you all put it in your heart to please help me and my family. We are greatly appreciative of any help anyone can offer. Anything helps.