Honor my wife in her death

Christy and I have been together for a decade and married for 9 years as of last Sunday.  Without warning she didn't wake up Tuesday morning and since she is so young we are looking at waiting 10-12 weeks until we can get an official death notice.  This makes it to where all of the insurance I've purchased for here won't be available until the administrative time after that 10-12 weeks.  It breaks my heart to think of my wife waiting in the basement of a funeral home for test results from San Diego County until I can pay for her to be laid to rest.  I would be eternally grateful to any who felt led to help us put Christy to rest at the serenity garden at Forrest Lawn in Bremerton next week after the memorial.   All gifts will go to being able to putting my wife to rest and the costs of her memorial service in Bremerton, WA.