I'm a twentysomething closeted trans woman living with abusive, bigoted parents. I'll never be able to transition with their blessing (or even with their indifference) and I live in constant fear of being hurt or disowned or w/e by them if outed. This is why I cannot show my face uncensored, I'm very paranoid about being found out due to close calls in the past -- if I could avoid it there wouldn't be a photo provided at all
My plan is to leave suddenly under cover of night with no warning. The earliest I'll be able to is next August; I need to continue living rent free until then to pay off medical debts. I can handle the installments as long as I stay employed, but I won't be able to save money. So I'll need a nestegg to use on the move, rent, living expenses etc. as I look for new work in the ensuing weeks or months
And even if my emoloyer works with me and gives me an assignment wherever I move to, rent is very very high in this metro area, based on my research $1.5k is the average.
Please help me build a new life where I can be myself