Help us Restart and Rebuild our Lives

So, I'm never one to reach out or ask for help. My family was victim to an ungodly, sick and twisted attempt to take all 7 of our lives while we slept. Woke up to smoke alarms a little after midnight. The room that was set on fire by the sick individual was right at the bottom of the stairs used to come from our rooms upstairs, right underneath where the 3 sweetest kids you've ever met were dreaming their sweet dreams. While carrying them down the stairs with my brother it was nearly impossible to get past the smoke and heat from that room directly at the bottom of the stairs. No one can sleep. It's haunting us all. My brothers who were sleeping downstairs said they wouldn't have even woke up in time if I hadn't screamed my lungs out to get them and their dogs to safety (which was the -10 degree weather) another 30 seconds and everyone would have been burned alive with my mom arriving from home from work. He planned it to be that way. He is incarcerated. Please I feel just so helpless asking all of you for help but every single thing all of us have ever had is completely burnt and then buried under many inches of frozen water from the fire trucks. Feel free to share please we need all the help we can get. Took me a few days to build up courage to ask help from you guys. Literally ANYTHING at all helps.