Help me become a mom of two

Hello! I’m Tinnue. I’m a writer, a part-time broadcaster on Twitch, and a full-time proud mom of one very adorable and animated little girl. I’m here, humbly asking for your help regarding a very difficult situation in the life of me, my daughter, and my wonderful husband.

We are the one-in-seven couples worldwide who are fighting against infertility. It’s extremely challenging to write this and I never wanted to speak about it publicly. It’s been hurting my soul so much in ways I never thought something could hurt and I know being on this journey for a couple of years now has changed me. In many ways for the better.

I have had a part of me taken away that I might never get back. My husband and I were blessed to have had one child in 2020 after nearly a decade of attempts. It eventually became a very dark and difficult time, going through the process, and we are incredibly grateful for the miracle we received. We’ve always had the dream of two children. We were very close at one point, but unfortunately, after having a heartbeat visible on the ultrasound, we had to say an early goodbye to our second miracle. We were devastated. It was like another part of me was lost.

Our wish is still there. I feel it from deep within my heart, and it’s next to impossible to bury that dream. Those of you who have siblings can understand what we want for our first miracle. We’ve been fighting a long time and we’ve come to an impasse.

As a young family, it’s an incredibly expensive process. We can’t continue to try here in our home country as it’s twice the price of trying elsewhere. We have a location in mind that has high medical standards and a lower cost, but even then, we have travel, hotels, and other fees to account for. That’s to say nothing of the outcome. Despite IVF success rates increasing by 45%, the end result could still go either way. In light of this, we know we will be unable to share specifics of dates, procedures, even how things go until we know for sure. Still, here we are, hoping that despite all the bad luck, something out there might recognize how much we’re fighting and decide to bless us again.

It’s extraordinarily difficult and humbling to even ask for your help, but we are. We don’t have many options left. This is our final attempt to complete our dream and have a companion for our amazing daughter. We’re hoping you can open your hearts and donate to help us achieve our wish. We’re hopeful, but knowing how times are, we understand how difficult it might be. We certainly don’t want people to give if it is beyond their means - your thoughts and prayers are all sincerely appreciated and spreading the word is incredibly helpful.

Thank you all so much for anything you can do, even if it’s just reading and supporting us.

Tin