Wedding for us

For starters this is one of the hardest things for me to do. My pride alone what's keeping me from actually posting this. Me and my fiance had been engaged for about 3 years and has been long overdue for us getting married. After having our second child and my fiance having to quit her job to stay home with our baby rightfully so it has caused some stressful times. Even with just about drowning in debt we have managed to save some money for the wedding. It's not much and we have definitely lowered our expectations for a big wedding and agreed to go on the cheaper side. Of course life likes to throw obstacles at you in the roughest times and now I recently went to the doctor and they said I have a double ventral hernia which require surgery pretty much immediately. Unfortunately we are going to have to take the wedding money and use it for the surgery trust me I would rather not get the surgery and give her a wedding but it's something that needs to be done. Like I said this is something that I thought i would never do and honestly in the past critiqued people for doing it but it means that much to me to give her a wedding even if it's small. Would be very appreciative and grateful for any donations and if not I completely understand but it's worth a shot. Thank you to whoever that took time to read this.