Get Alahna to her Father's funeral/celebration

Hi Guys, It pains me very much to even be doing this and I shouldn't be asking anyone for anything......but I had an epiphinay in the middle of the night and was pretty much told that I needed to set aside my pride and embarrassment and do this for Lala so here goes. On December 14th my beloved daughter lost her very beloved father in a horrible, tragic motorcycle accident. Over the last few years the two forged an unbreakable bond. He grew as a person and as a Dad and pretty much became the awesome Crocodile Dundee of father adventurers. For that I'm so grateful My daughter Alahna is having a very hard time coping with this tremendous loss. Neither of us can hardly bare to even see him in photos & at this point she cannot talk about him nor hear his name. He was going to fly her out in the middle of February for what was supposed to be his happily ever after wedding. Now that wedding has become his funeral / celebration of life. I guess I didn't mention it but her father was born in Hawaii and currently resided there up until his untimely death. I myself only recently acquired gainful employment after quite some time and thought that I would be able to pull it off but the more I try to sort it out the less it's looking like I can. I was hoping maybe to use some tax money to get her there but because of the government shutdown and probably my lack of working this year that probably is not going to pan out either. So I decided to come on here against every fiber of my being and ask if you will please help me send my daughter to lay her dad to rest? I will seriously come over and scoop your sidewalks the rest of the winter :-) anyways thank you for your consideration and all of your prayers we do appreciate all of it. love you guys!