Funeral expenses for Jill Lofftus

I never thought I would be writing this. I feel like dying with every single word. Our world has absolutely fallen apart.  On Monday morning Thanksgiving week I went to drop my daughter off with my Mother to be watched for the day by her and my sister. I went in the house to find her unresponsive. EMS was called and she was rushed to Norman Regional hospital under assumption of a possible stroke and or pneumonia. She was treated for pneumonia all week and was seeming to improve. Saturday at approximately 3:00am her blood gas levels became dangerous and her condition deteriorated quickly to the point she needed to be placed on a ventilator by 7:00am . She coded upon ventilator placement and passed away by 7:08 am. My family did not have any life insurance policy for my Mother.  Due to my Mother being disabled for multiple years my parents have always been strained
financially. We currently do not have the
financial ability to pay for these unexpected costs. We deeply want to have her remains buried in Illinois next to the rest of our family member who have preceded her in death. Please if you find it in your heart no matter the amount your gift would be such a great blessing for us in this time of deep grief.  I don’t know what to do without my momma . We are all so heartbroken and distraught at our loss right now. If you are unable to donate we ask that you could keep us in your thoughts and prayers.  Thank you. God bless and please hold your parents right and make sure they know how much you love them. I’d do anything to have that opportunity knowing she was alone in the hospital all week and I couldn’t comfort her and be there due to the pandemic. 

Donations

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  • Michael Duffield 
    • $81 
    • 1 mo
  • Tandy Flora 
    • $50 
    • 1 mo
  • Anonymous 
    • $250 
    • 1 mo
  • Darrel Day 
    • $81 
    • 1 mo
  • Eduardo Eusebio 
    • $81 
    • 1 mo
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Organizer

Laura Lofftus 
Organizer
Moore, OK
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