Chris Dozey Memorial Fundraiser
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My name is Hayley, and I am the oldest of Chris Dozey's two daughters. My sister Jodie and I are slowing trying to find a way to come to terms with the tragic loss of our Dad who sadly passed away earlier this week, at the premature age of 54 years old.
Dad could light up any room, his laughter was infectious, and he was the life and soul of every party. He was unique, loveable and his fun-loving nature was contagious. Dad was one of a kind.
Chris grew up in a loving home, in Paddock Road, Basingstoke with his brother and sister. Our Grandparents; Pam and Brian, were kind, supportive and our Dad cherished them. Their house was never empty, I have vivid memories of the smell of roast dinners and Nanny's open arms for any of my Dads extended family and friends, which were many. Dad loved playing football, however, supporting Tottenham when his Dad was an Arsenal fan shows his mischievous and cheeky demeanour.
Sadly, Dad had a battle with alcoholism for nearly as long as I can remember. My mum when they were married, and his family, tried every route to help, but after the loss of both his parents, my Dads addiction took a firmer hold of him. I read earlier this week that when someone with addiction dies, the grieving process for those close to that person can be difficult. It can bring up feelings of intense guilt, hurt, anger, and regret as the loved ones struggle to come to terms with what "could have been done" to prevent the death. I'm not even sure how I feel right now. My sister and I say we feel numb. It just seems a loss that someone so loved is gone too early. I think we all wish we could have saved him.
We are still unaware of the causes of Dad/Chris' death as we are awaiting the results of the post mortem. I will update accordingly.
Dad was special, his life was as simple as his needs, he loved, and he was loved, that was all that mattered to him. Jodie and I meant so much to Dad. He reminded us of this often. Words cannot express the hole that has been left in the hearts of his family and the people who loved him. Jodie and I are also now parents ourselves. Dad was unfortunately too unwell to see his Grandsons which broke his heart.
We would love to give Dad a funeral that reflects his life, his love, his family and friends. To show just how much love Dad/Chris had from people that knew him. Please consider helping my sister and I through this challenging time as we are preparing to pay for the funeral he deserves. We know we won't be able to say goodbye in the way we would have wished due to the pandemic but we know our Dad was loved, and his infectious personality touched so many people. Donations will help towards the end of life costs and his funeral expenses.
Thank you for reading, please share.
Love Hayley and Jodie
xxx
Dad could light up any room, his laughter was infectious, and he was the life and soul of every party. He was unique, loveable and his fun-loving nature was contagious. Dad was one of a kind.
Chris grew up in a loving home, in Paddock Road, Basingstoke with his brother and sister. Our Grandparents; Pam and Brian, were kind, supportive and our Dad cherished them. Their house was never empty, I have vivid memories of the smell of roast dinners and Nanny's open arms for any of my Dads extended family and friends, which were many. Dad loved playing football, however, supporting Tottenham when his Dad was an Arsenal fan shows his mischievous and cheeky demeanour.
Sadly, Dad had a battle with alcoholism for nearly as long as I can remember. My mum when they were married, and his family, tried every route to help, but after the loss of both his parents, my Dads addiction took a firmer hold of him. I read earlier this week that when someone with addiction dies, the grieving process for those close to that person can be difficult. It can bring up feelings of intense guilt, hurt, anger, and regret as the loved ones struggle to come to terms with what "could have been done" to prevent the death. I'm not even sure how I feel right now. My sister and I say we feel numb. It just seems a loss that someone so loved is gone too early. I think we all wish we could have saved him.
We are still unaware of the causes of Dad/Chris' death as we are awaiting the results of the post mortem. I will update accordingly.
Dad was special, his life was as simple as his needs, he loved, and he was loved, that was all that mattered to him. Jodie and I meant so much to Dad. He reminded us of this often. Words cannot express the hole that has been left in the hearts of his family and the people who loved him. Jodie and I are also now parents ourselves. Dad was unfortunately too unwell to see his Grandsons which broke his heart.
We would love to give Dad a funeral that reflects his life, his love, his family and friends. To show just how much love Dad/Chris had from people that knew him. Please consider helping my sister and I through this challenging time as we are preparing to pay for the funeral he deserves. We know we won't be able to say goodbye in the way we would have wished due to the pandemic but we know our Dad was loved, and his infectious personality touched so many people. Donations will help towards the end of life costs and his funeral expenses.
Thank you for reading, please share.
Love Hayley and Jodie
xxx
Organizer
Hayley Dozey
Organizer
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