Headstone for my deceased father

My dad passed away from stage 4 melanoma cancer 3 years ago. Which left my mother, my sister and I not only with out a father and husband but with bills from the funeral home. In order for us to get him the headstone he deserves we must pay the funeral home. We were just informed they will be taking us to court so this is my desperate attempt at giving him what he deserves. I promised myself I would never ask for help financially but I have no choice. For those of you that even made it to the end of this message thank you, thank you, thank you. Anything will hlp.