Black fem in need of funds asap!
Donation protected
Hey. So honestly my leo moon ass hates asking for anything, but a close friend convinced me allowing myself to reach out is going to make everything easier.
So as some people know i’m in the process of moving out of my current living situation. A lot of shit went on with my roommates mid august and I needed to find refuge asap.
Ive been blessed and grateful to have found an apartment, however moving costs and how much money i have to come up with in such a short period of time is seeming almost impossible.
What went on with my roommates: So as I said mid August, some shit went down; I texted my roommates two days in advance to let them know I had to watch my newborn nephew while my sister had an appointment that she cant bring a baby to. He was 3 weeks at the time. To which, my roommates responded in the most nastiest dickhead way, and pretty much went on and on about how kids makes them uncomfortable, going as far as bringing up a time when me and my nieces were watching a moving in the living room an we were “laughing too loud”. At 12p.m. They went on about how they feel left out because my nieces dont respond when they greet them. I wish i was fucking joking bro. I was honestly furious because they said a lot of other unnecessary shit about my nieces and when it comes to my family, i really don’t fuck with people saying shit about them at all. Theyre kids.
So boom i came home to a group meeting. When I tell you i have never been through this shit before, 3 grown ass men yelling at me over me informing them of my infant guest. The audacity. So i guess this was the breaking point for them? Because they then started saying how theyve been meaning to kick me out. They saw me as intimidating and mean just because I was too tired to participate in their goofy ass beer pong, movie & game nights. I just turned 21, they are all 30 years old. One black guy and two white guys. Keep in mind I was not living with all these men when i initially moved in, but thats another story in itself. Anyways I work 40+ hours a week sometimes. Every day I wake up and 6:30am, travel and hour and back to work, and get home at 7pm. I would always tell them in the most polite way when Im not able to hang out. And i established all of this before I moved in, about my family, schedule, and anxiety, and honestly they seemed chill about it. Wtf happened? Im never home, and i never ask these niggas for anything bro. I just work, hang out with MY people. and sleep. I do not exist to entertain nor satisfy men.
So a lot of other shit was said and it came to the point where i had to call up my friends and sister because they were getting in my face and threatening me. Over something this petty and stupid. They said i needed to leave in 2 weeks. I refused because wtf? to make the matters worse, they asked for rent last week, and when i refused to pay it, they called the cops on me. In which the cops said eviction is a process, and by law they couldnt kick me out. I stayed at my sisters and friend’s house a couple nights after that.
I honestly cant believe I have to go through this. But i know why. Im a black fem who’s opinionated and speaks up for themselves. My entire family is black. They feel uncomfortable because we’re living and doing what we can to sustain ourselves and loving every fucking moment of it, and they dont like that. I initially moved here to save money and get a car, but now this has set me back and ive exhausted those funds to move. When i tell you, black & non-black men love to see black fems struggle, they really get off on that. they love to see us assed out. I was put in a situation in where i was made out to be the aggressor when i was really just baffled by the entitlement and stupidity of my roommates. This did not need to happen at all.
Im moving in 2 weeks.
This is my first apartment, and i am really excited but stressed/nervous/happyasamf.
The cost of moving so abruptly is something I cant come up with in the time i was given.
To break it down, I need first last and security which equals 2900, so far ive paid that, but im struggling like a mf trying to pay for everything else. Moving expenses, essential items for my apartment, etc. Also my apartment runs on oil, in which i have to fill up the tank to a certain amount in order to comfortably move in there. and that is around 300 dollars. Capitalism can suck a fat dick. It shouldnt be this much to move but im grateful regardless to find a space of my own. All im asking for is any type of donating of help of any kind of help is really appreciated.
Thank you for reading.
So as some people know i’m in the process of moving out of my current living situation. A lot of shit went on with my roommates mid august and I needed to find refuge asap.
Ive been blessed and grateful to have found an apartment, however moving costs and how much money i have to come up with in such a short period of time is seeming almost impossible.
What went on with my roommates: So as I said mid August, some shit went down; I texted my roommates two days in advance to let them know I had to watch my newborn nephew while my sister had an appointment that she cant bring a baby to. He was 3 weeks at the time. To which, my roommates responded in the most nastiest dickhead way, and pretty much went on and on about how kids makes them uncomfortable, going as far as bringing up a time when me and my nieces were watching a moving in the living room an we were “laughing too loud”. At 12p.m. They went on about how they feel left out because my nieces dont respond when they greet them. I wish i was fucking joking bro. I was honestly furious because they said a lot of other unnecessary shit about my nieces and when it comes to my family, i really don’t fuck with people saying shit about them at all. Theyre kids.
So boom i came home to a group meeting. When I tell you i have never been through this shit before, 3 grown ass men yelling at me over me informing them of my infant guest. The audacity. So i guess this was the breaking point for them? Because they then started saying how theyve been meaning to kick me out. They saw me as intimidating and mean just because I was too tired to participate in their goofy ass beer pong, movie & game nights. I just turned 21, they are all 30 years old. One black guy and two white guys. Keep in mind I was not living with all these men when i initially moved in, but thats another story in itself. Anyways I work 40+ hours a week sometimes. Every day I wake up and 6:30am, travel and hour and back to work, and get home at 7pm. I would always tell them in the most polite way when Im not able to hang out. And i established all of this before I moved in, about my family, schedule, and anxiety, and honestly they seemed chill about it. Wtf happened? Im never home, and i never ask these niggas for anything bro. I just work, hang out with MY people. and sleep. I do not exist to entertain nor satisfy men.
So a lot of other shit was said and it came to the point where i had to call up my friends and sister because they were getting in my face and threatening me. Over something this petty and stupid. They said i needed to leave in 2 weeks. I refused because wtf? to make the matters worse, they asked for rent last week, and when i refused to pay it, they called the cops on me. In which the cops said eviction is a process, and by law they couldnt kick me out. I stayed at my sisters and friend’s house a couple nights after that.
I honestly cant believe I have to go through this. But i know why. Im a black fem who’s opinionated and speaks up for themselves. My entire family is black. They feel uncomfortable because we’re living and doing what we can to sustain ourselves and loving every fucking moment of it, and they dont like that. I initially moved here to save money and get a car, but now this has set me back and ive exhausted those funds to move. When i tell you, black & non-black men love to see black fems struggle, they really get off on that. they love to see us assed out. I was put in a situation in where i was made out to be the aggressor when i was really just baffled by the entitlement and stupidity of my roommates. This did not need to happen at all.
Im moving in 2 weeks.
This is my first apartment, and i am really excited but stressed/nervous/happyasamf.
The cost of moving so abruptly is something I cant come up with in the time i was given.
To break it down, I need first last and security which equals 2900, so far ive paid that, but im struggling like a mf trying to pay for everything else. Moving expenses, essential items for my apartment, etc. Also my apartment runs on oil, in which i have to fill up the tank to a certain amount in order to comfortably move in there. and that is around 300 dollars. Capitalism can suck a fat dick. It shouldnt be this much to move but im grateful regardless to find a space of my own. All im asking for is any type of donating of help of any kind of help is really appreciated.
Thank you for reading.
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indigo Bentley
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Providence, RI
