HELP ME NOT LOSE MY HOUSE

Hi, my name is Charlie and things are bad. I owe a lot of money to my mortgage provider - basically, because the government refuses to believe that the person I care for on a daily basis are disabled, we don’t get support from them and we are unable to pay many of our bills, including our mortgage. Now the provider is suing us and wants to take our house away. I hate doing this and it makes me feel like the worst kind of failure, but if you can spare anything, I would be eternally grateful. Thank you.