Amy's breast cancer care

My wife has been recently diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer, it has already spread to her chest lymph nodes. We have 3 high school children and I haven't been able to work for the last month caring for Amy. She has had doctor appointments and testing done everyday. Chemo starts Thursday for 16 weeks, then surgery and then radiation. At this point there is no cure just hope that the doctors can some what control the spread. Amy is 43 years old a wonderful mom, wife, daughter, aunt, niece, daughter in-law and woman. We have never thought we would ever be in this position.