Help me beat breast cancer

Hello there thank you for your time I am 36 years old mother of 3 children 15yr old 4yr old 21 month old married to a wonderful man and recently diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer August 9 2013 also in lymph nodes I am going through chemo to shrink a tumor on my left under arm I will have full masectomy surgery in mid December then 6 more chemo's after surgery then radiation....since no one is really prepared for any of this at least I wasn't financially it has been very hard on me and my husband he has been working 6 days non stop since I am on disability we are trying to keep our life as normal as possible since the kids are going through enough with me loosing my hair the nausea and asking why mommy is sleeping so much and can't play with them since I was always doing 10 things at once on the go at all times but now it's been different maybe god wants me to slow down who knows...I would appreciate any help thank you for reading my story and lots of blessings to you and I .....