Medicine for Demi

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Raised by 110 people in 51 months
At the age of 13 Demi-Lee was diagnosed with Guillain Barré  Syndrome / GBS (An acute polyneuropathy, a disorder affecting the peripheral nervous system with weakness beginning in the feet and hands and migrating towards her abdomen). 

Last year Demi-Lee experienced a relapse and her previous GBS diagnosis was adjusted to CIDP (considered the chronic cousin of GBS). The hallmark of the disease is loss of the myelin sheath (the fatty covering that insulates and protects nerve fibers) of the peripheral nerves.

Chronic inflammatory demyelinating polyneuropathy is believed to be due to immune cells, cells which normally protect the body from foreign infection, but here begin incorrectly attacking the nerves in the body instead. As a result, the affected nerves fail to respond (or respond only weakly) to stimuli, causing numbing, tingling, pain, progressive muscle weakness, fatigue, and abnormal sensations. The likelihood of progression of the disease is high. CIDP only reportedly affects 7.7 per 100 000 people  (North American CIDP studies).

Demi-Lee had recently completed Plasmapheresis  which involved the removal of her blood plasma from blood circulation. (Blood was removed from the body, her blood cells and plasma separated, with a mixture of her blood cells and albumen returned to her blood stream). Plasmapheresis is a procedure used in the treatment of a variety of immune system disorders, including GBS and works by removing your bodies T-Cells which are responsible for the attacking by your immune system of your peripheral nervous system (more specifically the destruction of the Myelin that encapsulates your nerve fibers).

Plasmapheresis was considered part one of a two part treatment regimen aimed at addressing the chronic inflammation / infection. Part two involved Rituximab infusion (Rituximab destroys B cells and is therefore used to treat diseases which are characterized by excessive numbers of B cells, overactive B cells, or dysfunctional B cells as is the case with autoimmune disorders). 

Most recently our medical aid refused to allow for the administration of Rituximab.

Demi-Lee was administered a single dose of Rituximab when she was recently admitted to hospital with signs of weakening and fatigue. Recent blood tests have demonstrated a complete eradication of her B-Cells, an early indication that Demi-Lee’s physicians are on track.

Demi-Lee attends school in Morris Hills High School in Rockaway where she will be a senior this year. Demi-Lee is a member of the Morris Town U/19 High School Rugby program where she also serves as a Flag Referee (Denville Dawgs Flag Program). Doctors are amazed that Demi-Lee is even able walk and this is testament to her determination to overcome this disease – Demi-Lee has zero to nil sensation below her knees and so literally lifts her lower legs with her quads when attempting to run. Even though there are certain key rugby skills that CIDP will continue to hamper, Demi-Lee remains an enthusiastic young athlete. Recently she was invited along to the High School All American camp where she competed against healthy athletes for a sport on the US High School All American team. Unfortunately she was not able to make the squad but her beaming smile demonstrated the amount of fun she had had, and typifies her remarkable outlook on life.

Demi-Lee actively volunteers whenever possible and can be seen at the annual Denville river clean up each year. She and her sister also assisted Morris Rugby in supporting the recent rugby clinics hosted at the Pocono fields in Denville. Morris Rugby has been an integral part of our life since moving to New Jersey, and Demi-Lee’s father has been actively engaged in coaching across a number of Morris Town rugby programs  including the Morris High School U/19 Boys, Morris Men and the New York & New Jersey Select Side.

At school Demi-Lee is deeply involved in the high school’s Anti-Bullying program in support of raising awareness for students with similar disabilities. She has run a number of anti-bullying campaigns at her high school, including a recent CIDP awareness drive that had her handing out CIDP bracelets in an effort to raise funds for the foundation, a non-profit organization that both actively researches cures for the disease as well as makes treatment available to lesser  privileged sufferers (which includes the securing of  AFO braces to help address foot drop among patients). Demi-Lee was also recently inducted to the Morris Hills High School National Honor society, an amazing feat considering the amount of school she misses when she receives her monthly IVIG infusions. She also collected the Mathematics award, and will this year, in partnership with one of her high school classmates run the first gifted and talented TV 4 program.

Recently Demi-Lee coordinated the raising of funding in an effort to purchase teddy bears for the “Miss U-Can-Do-It” pageant. With the support of her High School, close friends and family, Demi-Lee was able to send of 20 teddy bears to this national non-profit pageant created just for girls and women with special needs and challenges.

We sincerely believe that her current treatment program will be instrumental in breaking / stalling her CIDP and allow her body the opportunity to recover. 

 We need your support please!

Kind regards,

Morné and Lizett Pretorius
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Good evening

I did not want to call it a night until I had the opportunity to personally thank you for the funds raised for Demi-Lee’s treatment. For those of you who do not know, she recently received her first Rituxan infusion (Monday) followed by two IVIG infusions on Tuesday and Wednesday !! The money that has been raised thus far is what has allowed us to have them administer her treatment.

With the funds we received this evening we can now plan her second Rituxan transfusion.

We are at a loss for words to express how deep our appreciation has been for each and every one that has contributed in some way or manner to Demi’s Day (this over and above the generous donations received on Demi-Lee’s Go Fund me). This weekend I saw first hand what is possible when a number of selfless, committed folk put their heads together to help those in need. Your meticulous planning, thoughtful gifts and kind gestures (Bands, Venue, Morris Rugby Jerseys, Wonderful warm meals, Tricky Tray gifts, Blue CIDP shirts etc. etc.) have had a profound impact on my family. If we appear reserved it is only because we are so humbled and appreciative of all you had done. If I have not yet personally thanked you please know that it has not been on purpose.

I am not certain whether everyone had seen our posting to Facebook, but this weekend was the first time Demi-Lee had the opportunity to meet members of the GBS-CIDP foundation. Recently Demi-Lee has had to deal with a lot of difficult information, as doctors no longer held back on the information they would communicate to her. While we understand that they are trying to be realistic and set expectations Demi-Lee had been painted a bleak picture of her future, including the possibility of requiring a wheelchair. The long term effects of the treatment she has been receiving for a number of years has also weighed heavily on her mind.

This weekend she was able to talk openly with a CIDP representative that is in remission after 22 years ! You have no idea what this small gesture has meant to Demi-Lee !! We were exchanging treatments, advice and what not and I thank Jim from the bottom of my heart for the part he played in arranging this.

Dobbs I do not have the contact details of all the folk who were engaged behind the scene. Could I kindly ask that you please forward this note to everyone involved ? (Morris Men, Morris Trustees, Morris Women, Donna, Lill, Master Chef Al, The Major, All the folk that manned the Tricky Tray, friend etc. etc.).

In a number of years you may look back and wagely remember Sunday’s events, and maybe even one of two names. We will forever have etched in our minds the event and all of the special folk that made the day possible. I love you all like brothers and sisters (some younger and some older than others).

God Bless

Morne, Lizett, Demi-Lee and Samantha-Lee.
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Saying thank you can be a difficult thing to do, especially when there are so many of you (both known and unknown) . I wish I could personally hug every one of you to express my thanks and I love I have for all of you. So many of you have contributed to my fund and today I will receive my first infusion of Rituxan. By the time you read my post I will be under, but I'll be sure to post an update before returning home. Love Demi.
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Good Morning!
We received a call this morning and Demi will be going in on the 13th October for her chemo session... ! Thank you for all your donations and support ! We are still positive that we will get the funds raise !!! Keep sharing please :-)
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Good morning everyone! Just want to give you all the good news we have secure a infusion centre for Demi to receive her medication. They are a bit cheaper than the hospital and closer to home . We as a family also want to say THANK YOU for all your donations and for keep on sharing this we need all your help ..GOD BLESS!
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$9,544 of $25,000 goal

Raised by 110 people in 51 months
Created September 14, 2014
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Michael Barbone
40 months ago

I am a friend of Dolores and Charlie. They shared Demi's story. Hoping she is cured very soon!

Valerie Mayes
41 months ago

Love from Virginia!!!!!!

Valerie Mayes
43 months ago

Praying God's healing for Demi and strength for the family. So happy to have met this family.

Dolores Nasto
48 months ago

Thinking of you now and always. ♥

Blaze Feury
49 months ago

Thanks for the USA tickets Morne! Get well Morne!

John Harvey
49 months ago

Thank you for the opportunity to help. John Harvey - Coach, Drew Rugby

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