Aria L. James Funeral Support
On Friday night, I decided that I wanted to take my beautiful pregnant fiance, Pache, to go eat a nice dinner, followed by a relaxing night at home. Unfortunately on our way there, we were involved in a car accident just before arriving. We had come across an accident that had already happened maybe minutes before we arrived at the intersection. While trying to move past the accident, we were hit on the drivers side of our car. Thankfully I was driving instead of Pache. We were both a little shook up, but neither of us felt like we were harmed in any way, so after speaking with everybody in scene, we were able to catch a ride home. The following day, Saturday the 28th, Pache woke up to serious stomach pains, and was also spotting blood lightly, so we headed to the hospital.
On Saturday, March 28th, my beautiful daughter, Aria Le'Allyn James made her appearance 3 and a half months early to the world, weighing at 1lb 3.4 is and a length of 12.5". She was smaller than a preemie, officially considered a micro-preemie. After having the doctors evaluate my Fiance, it was decided that we were going to do an emergency C-Section right then and there, due to an abruption, easily said, her placenta was disconnected from the uterus, which had cut off everything to the baby, and had caused internal bleeding. Baby Aria needed to get out as soon as possible.
After the successful birth of our daughter, she was placed into the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) at Tacoma General/Mary Bridge Hospital. From the start, baby Aria was proving to us how much of a fighter she really was. She was in an controlled incubator with lines going through her belly button to supply nutrients, while also having a breathing tube to assist her lungs with breathing. She was able to get a feeding tube going directly into her little belly, so she could enjoy mommy's milk. Baby Aria was expected to stay in the NICU until her original due date, July 15th, 2015. Baby Aria was doing amazing, tackling every test they had given her.
On Wednesday, April 1 2015, we were awoken by an urgent phone call from her doctor, explaining that our little girl was very sick. After further tests, Baby Aria was discovered to have a hole in her lower intestines, causing her stool to be released into her little belly, which was causing a lot of complications in our little fighter. Later on that day, after doing everything they could for our little girl, we were informed that performing surgery was not an option due to how tiny little Aria was. On April 1, 2015 at 5:38pm, our little girl joined Jesus in heaven.
Thank you everybody from the bottom of my heart. To see so many people coming together and sending kind words and thoughts is such a blessing for my family. Though our heartache will be an everlasting pain, it's such a great an uplifting feeling to have so much support. We wouldn't be able to do this without you guys. Thank you. Happy Easter!!
I just want to say thank you everyone for all of the love and support. I miss her so much and wish more than anything I can just hold her tight in my arms. Each donation is making her services even more beautiful. Thank you so much. It really means the world to our family.
I just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers your way. My baby boy was born at 28 weeks (emergency c-section because I had HELLP syndrome) and he passed away after just 7 days from NEC....reading your story felt so familiar to me and I can empathize with your grief. I hope that you are able to connect with people that build you up rather than knock you down.
Rest in peace little angle. This just saddens my heart. Prayers to the family!
I wish so much I could donate!!! I am so sorry for your loss, and also sorry that your friend hurt you so badly in addition to your loss.
God blees her, and you. Your strong. And she is looking down smiling proudly at her mommy and daddy. Stay strong for her. :) and my god continue to blees your family.
What a beautiful little blessing. Although she was only here for a short season, she is with you for eternity looking down from Heaven. Aria, dance with Jesus sweet baby! Rest in paradise always!!,
God bless you and yours during this very difficult season of your lives. Xoxo
I am crying as I read your story as I have three little ones and can imagine the pain of losing your precious little angel.Please accept my deepest sympathies for the loss of your beautiful little baby and may little Aria rest in peace until you meet again in the presence of Jesus. Love, Donna Jackson
Continued ... Is to bury my baby. I am praying for you guys!!
Hello, we Dont know each other but I to lost a full term baby as a result of an abruption. He (Anthony) would have been 10 years old this June 2nd. I cannot afford to donate money but I can offer my thoughts, prayers and condolences to you and your wife. The hardest thing I've ever had.
I am truly sorry for your lost and I know yoy don't know me but feel free to messege me if you need to talk to someone I lost my 25 weeker 2 years ago she was 1lb 9oz.
Sarah Slack with the Tears foundation can help in many ways. You can reach her through FB or thetearsfoundation.com
wow everybody..I am completely blown away by the support and love that everybody is showing for my family and my beautiful daughter. No words can ever describe how truly grateful we are to have such an amazing group around us.
I am truly sorry for the pain you guys are going thru, as I told Kelsey if you need anything and I mean anything do not hesitate to reach out. I will do all I can to help, I also know of someone who can help with getting the medical bills way down so you guys do not have to worry about those. I'm so sorry you are in my prayers
I just want to give my deepest condolences to your family I could not image losing a child. I would like to donate something on Tuesday if the gofund me account is still up. Prayers for your family. I also shared to my friends to hope someone will help donate to. God bless you.
Thank you ALL for your generosity, love, and support for my beautiful niece Aria, my brother Anthony, and sister in law Pache!! I cant even begin to put into words how grateful our family is for all of your support.
This is so sad i have known this family for 45 years they are a close net family that loves each other very much and would help others before themselves they did not deserve this my hart is broken .
My heart has wings for aria tonight
I only wish I had known. I found out 345 today. Haven't stopped crying for more then 10 minutes... I freaked out when you said you guys got hit. I cried the first time I seen her. I've shared her story at family get togethers. I prayed. I've checked your page just wanting to know anything. And we allll know what I found out about. Pache tho I haven't been to see you in forever. I have never stopped adoring you... you're the best and you found this great guy to be with you all of your days! You guys are amazing! !
Sorry it's not much but I hope the $50 helps !! You guys are in my prayers