Evelyn’s EMERGENCY MOVING expenses
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HELP! I have an Urgent Emergency and for the first time in my life need to ask for help from people who aren’t necessarily family members. I am staying at a Hotel right now waiting for my new apartment to be ready. As many of you know I have had a MEDICAL DISABILITY for 23 years. I have an Immune System Disorder called: Chronic Fatigue Immune Dysfunction Syndrome (CFIDS), Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS), and more recently is now often referred to Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME). Often you will see all 3 written together as CFIDS/ME/CFS.
My URGENT EMERGENCY is I have had to leave my home of over 2 years due to an ongoing EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE situation that escalated. This is embarrassing for me because not only do I have to share some emotional abuse I have endured since I was a child but also instead of asking help from these family members I now have to reach out and ask some of my other family and friends for help. Urgently I may need to stay at this hotel for 1 or 2 nights until the new apartment is ready and I get electricity in. I am on Social Security Disability due to having severe and chronic CFIDS/CFS/ME. I had supportive family helping supplement me and so I had been fortunate. However, the supportive family died and someone who has had a history of being extremely emotionally abusive with me and previously even physically abusive (when I was a child) was helping me financially. She and 2 other immediate family members have decided to systematically bully me for the last 6 months. Unfortunately this is right from a Lifetime movie. They are attempting to declare my MEDICAL ILLNESS as something it is not and seem to want me to have a Mental Diagnosis, which no professional ever gives to me. They are relentlessly calling the Police and Emergency charities hoping someone will declare I am mentally ill. Unfortunately one of my abusers has Bipolar Disorder and has distorted thinking. He has continuously been told to NOT CONTACT my medical doctors and yet he continues to do so to lie. I’ve been told to get a Restraining Order, which I will be doing. He lies to the police and everyone attempting to get authorities to believe I am a danger to myself and others. He and the other two family members have continuously been told by emergency professionals, Medical Doctors, and the police that I am NOT a danger to anyone. I have only been diagnosed with MEDICAL problems. Anyone who knows about CFIDS/ME/CFS knows that it includes many illnesses, including for me: fibromyalgia, hypothyroidism, Sjögren’s syndrome , Adrenal Insufficiency, Vertigo, Vitiligo, Sinusitis, Migraines, ... as well as many other related medical illnesses.
This Emergency situation is a Nightmare. Because the family member with Bipolar Disorder refuses to leave the home I have lived in for over 2 years, it has become a dangerous situation for me. I don’t feel safe. He goes from attempting to “love” me to acting like I am a dangerous criminal he needs to protect others from. He smokes “medical marijuana” and drinks while having Bipolar Disorder, which might not be the best decision for his mind and brain. He also already has a FELONY HARASSMENT charge due to to harassing my 2 Aunts. So now I have to also protect myself legally. This situation has become incredibly sad because one of my family members is older that 70 years old and one of the reasons the other family members are systematically attempting to declare me as incompetent is that they want to have me written out of a Will that wouldn’t include me. Inheritance disputes and greed above family is already happening in the previous generation of my family so now this includes my generation that are acting like greedy sociopathic people who just want money and care less what they do to their own blood relatives to get it. I realize I am opening up about my family and some people who know me and my family will be shocked because I have spent my life in a family that can be extremely abusive to me and yet I never opened up about this because my maternal family is supposed to have been “perfect.” After my Grandparents died the results of this dysfunction are left in the rest of the family. It’s quite sad and there are some cut offs and some mental illnesses. I have an immune system disorder and had to stop working when I became bedridden and then housebound. Previously I did improve enough to be more involved in the community and even taught a Bible study and was a Chairwoman for a few years. Then my health declined again. I’ve had 23 years of medical doctors, psychologists, specialists, tests, procedures, and psychiatrists. I’ve never been diagnosed with a mental illness that other family members have and their refusal to listen to these professionals has become dangerous to me. They are now even lying to professionals to make sure they are believed. I HAVE to get away from them. Because these same abusive people helped me financially and leased a car for me I now have to move, pay for movers, pay for start up costs for an apartment, and now I will need to get transportation for traveling to my appointments. I am hoping getting away from ABUSE will help my health. Unfortunately this is all now in the Legal System and we already have court dates. I have paperwork to still complete and I have to decide what I need to pursue against them. They also stole and destroyed my property and opened up my mail and are refusing to give me my mail, which included my new Medicare card and paperwork that needs to be completed by a deadline. My bills and password for my credit cards were stolen.. I finally retrieved that back but now I have to change every single password and order new credit cards. I might even need a new social security number because they got all my information and are using it to abuse me. They also tell people they are trying to “Help” me. I have witness reports of people who witnessed them abusing me and trying to blame me for things I never do.
I am hoping to be able to get police to help me get my belongings to move to the new apartment. I need to get utilities and I will need some things I have previously donated to others, like a couch and bed. I will have to pay for movers. I am hoping that I can be humble and admit I am in a bad position in life and we all sometime have a difficult period. Once I moved in I am hoping to remain away from abusice family and I would like to begin to work toward making money even while being chronically sick. I have some ideas and being away from people who harassed me and sabotaged my progress will certainly help.
Anyone who helps me I am thanking now and will thank personally. I also will gladly return anything when I am doing better again. I am also going to have a PayPal link and an Amazon wish list. There is also an immediate transfer of funds on FaceBook Messenger. I will keep people updated on my progress as I go along. I have my dog Prince with me at the Hotel but still have to pick up my cat Captain. I do know they are taking good care of Captain but of course I will pick him up with the police as soon as the apartment is ready. I want him with me of course. Also when I have received countless offers to help me during this illness and I always declined it is because my family has been so private and just wanted me to get help from their abusive selves. So now when someone offers to help me move or clean or do something you will find out I will be accepting more help. I look forward to getting therapy for enduring a lifetime of emotional abuse and sharing more with others to help myself and others.
Thank you to everyone. ❤️
My URGENT EMERGENCY is I have had to leave my home of over 2 years due to an ongoing EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE situation that escalated. This is embarrassing for me because not only do I have to share some emotional abuse I have endured since I was a child but also instead of asking help from these family members I now have to reach out and ask some of my other family and friends for help. Urgently I may need to stay at this hotel for 1 or 2 nights until the new apartment is ready and I get electricity in. I am on Social Security Disability due to having severe and chronic CFIDS/CFS/ME. I had supportive family helping supplement me and so I had been fortunate. However, the supportive family died and someone who has had a history of being extremely emotionally abusive with me and previously even physically abusive (when I was a child) was helping me financially. She and 2 other immediate family members have decided to systematically bully me for the last 6 months. Unfortunately this is right from a Lifetime movie. They are attempting to declare my MEDICAL ILLNESS as something it is not and seem to want me to have a Mental Diagnosis, which no professional ever gives to me. They are relentlessly calling the Police and Emergency charities hoping someone will declare I am mentally ill. Unfortunately one of my abusers has Bipolar Disorder and has distorted thinking. He has continuously been told to NOT CONTACT my medical doctors and yet he continues to do so to lie. I’ve been told to get a Restraining Order, which I will be doing. He lies to the police and everyone attempting to get authorities to believe I am a danger to myself and others. He and the other two family members have continuously been told by emergency professionals, Medical Doctors, and the police that I am NOT a danger to anyone. I have only been diagnosed with MEDICAL problems. Anyone who knows about CFIDS/ME/CFS knows that it includes many illnesses, including for me: fibromyalgia, hypothyroidism, Sjögren’s syndrome , Adrenal Insufficiency, Vertigo, Vitiligo, Sinusitis, Migraines, ... as well as many other related medical illnesses.
This Emergency situation is a Nightmare. Because the family member with Bipolar Disorder refuses to leave the home I have lived in for over 2 years, it has become a dangerous situation for me. I don’t feel safe. He goes from attempting to “love” me to acting like I am a dangerous criminal he needs to protect others from. He smokes “medical marijuana” and drinks while having Bipolar Disorder, which might not be the best decision for his mind and brain. He also already has a FELONY HARASSMENT charge due to to harassing my 2 Aunts. So now I have to also protect myself legally. This situation has become incredibly sad because one of my family members is older that 70 years old and one of the reasons the other family members are systematically attempting to declare me as incompetent is that they want to have me written out of a Will that wouldn’t include me. Inheritance disputes and greed above family is already happening in the previous generation of my family so now this includes my generation that are acting like greedy sociopathic people who just want money and care less what they do to their own blood relatives to get it. I realize I am opening up about my family and some people who know me and my family will be shocked because I have spent my life in a family that can be extremely abusive to me and yet I never opened up about this because my maternal family is supposed to have been “perfect.” After my Grandparents died the results of this dysfunction are left in the rest of the family. It’s quite sad and there are some cut offs and some mental illnesses. I have an immune system disorder and had to stop working when I became bedridden and then housebound. Previously I did improve enough to be more involved in the community and even taught a Bible study and was a Chairwoman for a few years. Then my health declined again. I’ve had 23 years of medical doctors, psychologists, specialists, tests, procedures, and psychiatrists. I’ve never been diagnosed with a mental illness that other family members have and their refusal to listen to these professionals has become dangerous to me. They are now even lying to professionals to make sure they are believed. I HAVE to get away from them. Because these same abusive people helped me financially and leased a car for me I now have to move, pay for movers, pay for start up costs for an apartment, and now I will need to get transportation for traveling to my appointments. I am hoping getting away from ABUSE will help my health. Unfortunately this is all now in the Legal System and we already have court dates. I have paperwork to still complete and I have to decide what I need to pursue against them. They also stole and destroyed my property and opened up my mail and are refusing to give me my mail, which included my new Medicare card and paperwork that needs to be completed by a deadline. My bills and password for my credit cards were stolen.. I finally retrieved that back but now I have to change every single password and order new credit cards. I might even need a new social security number because they got all my information and are using it to abuse me. They also tell people they are trying to “Help” me. I have witness reports of people who witnessed them abusing me and trying to blame me for things I never do.
I am hoping to be able to get police to help me get my belongings to move to the new apartment. I need to get utilities and I will need some things I have previously donated to others, like a couch and bed. I will have to pay for movers. I am hoping that I can be humble and admit I am in a bad position in life and we all sometime have a difficult period. Once I moved in I am hoping to remain away from abusice family and I would like to begin to work toward making money even while being chronically sick. I have some ideas and being away from people who harassed me and sabotaged my progress will certainly help.
Anyone who helps me I am thanking now and will thank personally. I also will gladly return anything when I am doing better again. I am also going to have a PayPal link and an Amazon wish list. There is also an immediate transfer of funds on FaceBook Messenger. I will keep people updated on my progress as I go along. I have my dog Prince with me at the Hotel but still have to pick up my cat Captain. I do know they are taking good care of Captain but of course I will pick him up with the police as soon as the apartment is ready. I want him with me of course. Also when I have received countless offers to help me during this illness and I always declined it is because my family has been so private and just wanted me to get help from their abusive selves. So now when someone offers to help me move or clean or do something you will find out I will be accepting more help. I look forward to getting therapy for enduring a lifetime of emotional abuse and sharing more with others to help myself and others.
Thank you to everyone. ❤️
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Evelyn Zaida Young
Organizer
Little Falls, NY
