Please Help My Family Out.

Hello, My name is Hailey McCann-Beauvais. Most of you know my parents Steve Belisle-Beauvais & Karen McCann. So my father found out 23 months ago he has stage 3 Melanoma skin cancer and was giving 5 years to live in 2016. He went through chemo and it work for a little bit. Then a year ago he found out the cancer has spread throughout his hole body hitting on his organs and was in stage 4 and in that time he founded out he got bone cancer to. Now a year later my father has been getting headaches and a this point the headache has lasting for a week. So my mother made him a doctor's appointment today with the family doctor because he in so much pain. The family doctor order a ct to be done of his head to see if the cancer has spread to his brain and to see what is his options are. My parents and grandma was told to go to the ER in Chatham to find out the results. They called him back to a room and told my parents and my grandma that the cancer has spread to his brain. With that beening said they told them he either go's home and die with family around him or risk the change of having surgery to release the pursues on his brain and giving us a week or 2 with him. But wait there are risk to this surgery if he does take it. He may not wake up from surgery or he may come out a vegetable state or it may make him worst and not know who we are. The doctor are telling my parents with 2 options my father has days or a week to live. So my parents and family are at odds because we want him to stay longer with us but in one hand we don't want him to have so much pain either. It's like beating us up what to do, what is the right choice we pick. With that being said, my parents are going to need help to paid for funerals cost for my father. Yes everyone is wondering do we have life insurance on him and the answer yes we do but it only comes in handy if he would of last another year on the policy. So yes my mom will be stuck trying to do the funeral cost on her own and she on o.d.s.p. So i am asking from the community and my family and friends and the world  to help my mom out and us too.  Please no rude comments on this page please. If you have any questions feel free to ask in a private message.