Help Out the Dreihaus Boys (Dillsboro)

$10,320 of $10k goal

Raised by 188 people in 29 months
Mari Redwine Jackson  LAWRENCEBURG, IN
Dalton, Adam, and Blake Dreihaus have experienced an unimaginable amount of loss in the past two and a half years. In 2011, their father died in a motorcycle accident.  As their English teacher, I was able to read about their loss in moving essays that all three boys wrote about their father.  It was clear that the boys loved him deeply, and that despite their naturally cheerful and optimistic natures, that the journey back to a normal life was going to be a great challenge.  Tragically, on April 21st, just as the twins Blake and Adam are preparing to graduate from South Dearborn High School with honors, their mother also passed away unexpectedly.  

Dalton, the oldest child, had delayed his dream of serving his country in the military in order to work at Kroger to help his family out.  He wanted to provide extra support for his mother and his brothers until the twins went off to college.  I saw him recently and he was so excited that he had been officially accepted into the Navy, and he had lost weight and gotten in shape for training this summer.  

Blake and Adam were supposed to enjoy the night of their lives this weekend at their senior prom and graduation is just a few months away.  They have both been accepted to reputable colleges, and they were even going to be brave enough to step out on their own and go to separate schools, despite years of being so close that they often finish each other's sentences. They are two of the kindest boys I have ever met, always looking out for others, and deeply sensitive to needs and feelings of those around them.  They have been actively involved during their high school careers, working hard in Student Government, National Honor Society, playing tennis, and much more.  

Now, they are facing the challenges of young adulthood without the type of support that most of us take for granted---that of a mother or a father.  While they do have loving family to help them, it is very sad to think the financial burden will end up affecting the boys or their grandparents.  While we cannot give them back their parents, hopefully we can give them the security of knowing that there is a fund to help them pay off any financial obligations their parents may have left behind, and to give Dalton peace of mind that his brothers will be OK if he still decides to serve his country.  It is my wish that Adam and Blake can leave for college knowing that there is enough money for a tank of gas to visit friends and for a pizza after a late night of studying.  I would love to find a way for the financial burden to be off of them and their grandparents, as it feels like the least we can do for three young men who have always kept giving their best despite tragedy.

Any money collected will be donated directly to the boys and their grandparents to help defray any financial debts they may have been left, or to make their lives easier as they go off to college and the Navy. Thank you so much for any contribution you make, and please share this page so we can give these boys the help they deserve!

Along with this fundraising website, we will be establishing a local bank account for the boys for those who prefer to make cash donations.  As soon as I have that information, I will post it here.  Anyone who has questions is welcome to contact me at (812)290-1003.
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Update 7
27 months ago

One more quick note-this account will remain open for any additional donations, along with the bank account at US Bank.
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Update 6
27 months ago

Great news! We have exceeded the initial goal of $10,000 thanks to some very generous last minute donations! Thanks so much to everyone who contributed to the boys' fund. I spoke to their grandmother, Kay, and she was very thankful for the support the community has given to her grandchildren. She has also set up two accounts at US Bank in her name (Kay Raffignone) that will be used to help with Blake and Adam's college and living expenses. If you would like to donate in person at the bank, please contact the Dillsboro branch of US Bank on Bank Street in Dillsboro (812-432-3111) and they can help you make a cash or check donation.
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Update 5
28 months ago

We are almost to the goal of $10,000! For those of you who asked about a bank account where you could make a cash or check donation, an account has been created for the boys in their guardian's name, their grandmother, Kay Raffignone. You can contact the Dillsboro branch of U.S. Bank at (812)432-3111 to make a donation.
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Debbie Castillo-Harris
3 months ago

To all my friends far and near, I personally know Dalton, the oldest. He is in the US Navy. He has been several times to my home met him through my son also in the Navy) Not once has he ever mentioned to me the full situation he and his younger brothers were left in. Very sad to lose one parent, but to lose two, and so close together. My friends I ask you PLEASE, think of these decent young men. So much money is donated to false causes....this is an honest cause...lets all of us as a team help turn and keep this boys into young fine men! Every penny, dime and dollar will add up and will my friend help....helping should help clear your soul. Some children don't know what they had until they no longer have it. I thank each and every one of you for assistance in helping my friend Dalton and his twin brothers. May God bless each and every one of you.

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Lorry Kirschner
29 months ago

What a kind gesture you have made...and how very heart warming to see so many people reach out to these young men in their time of need.

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Mari Jackson
29 months ago

Thank you Janice, Paula, and Katrina! I'm very glad to be able to help the boys, and grateful to everyone else who is so generously supporting them.

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Janice Hall Watson
29 months ago

Thank you for calling attention to this situation.We all need help at some point in our lives either financial and/or emotionally.

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Katrina Riggs
29 months ago

I agree Paula. Thank you Mari. A community pulling together in times like this is a blessing.

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Paula Haney
29 months ago

What a touching tribute to these fine young men. Thank you Mar for setting this up.

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Raised by 188 people in 29 months
Created April 22, 2014
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Debbie Castillo-Harris
3 months ago

To all my friends far and near, I personally know Dalton, the oldest. He is in the US Navy. He has been several times to my home met him through my son also in the Navy) Not once has he ever mentioned to me the full situation he and his younger brothers were left in. Very sad to lose one parent, but to lose two, and so close together. My friends I ask you PLEASE, think of these decent young men. So much money is donated to false causes....this is an honest cause...lets all of us as a team help turn and keep this boys into young fine men! Every penny, dime and dollar will add up and will my friend help....helping should help clear your soul. Some children don't know what they had until they no longer have it. I thank each and every one of you for assistance in helping my friend Dalton and his twin brothers. May God bless each and every one of you.

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Lorry Kirschner
29 months ago

What a kind gesture you have made...and how very heart warming to see so many people reach out to these young men in their time of need.

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Mari Jackson
29 months ago

Thank you Janice, Paula, and Katrina! I'm very glad to be able to help the boys, and grateful to everyone else who is so generously supporting them.

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Janice Hall Watson
29 months ago

Thank you for calling attention to this situation.We all need help at some point in our lives either financial and/or emotionally.

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Katrina Riggs
29 months ago

I agree Paula. Thank you Mari. A community pulling together in times like this is a blessing.

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Paula Haney
29 months ago

What a touching tribute to these fine young men. Thank you Mar for setting this up.

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