Help Amanda Ray After Loss Of 3 Year
3 year old son died in a tragic accident August 7th. Need help with funeral cost.
I want to thank everyone for for their help, support and kind words. It has meant more than you know to her. I as a mother and a parent can't even begin to imagine what she has been going through. The death of a child any child, especially a baby has to be the hardest thing to go through. Amanda has had more put on her than one person should. She has lashed out, cried, broke down a lot. Swearing she wasn't going to make it through this, that she was breaking. Yet she has found the strength to get up and deal with whatever the new day has to put on her. I am so amazed and impressed with how strong she has been. I don't know where she keeps finding the strength to keep going. Two of the reasons are Ray-lynn and Levi, she knows they are morning the loss of there baby brother as well. There have been people who only want to judge her, and ridicule her. I say to those people and everyone, UNTIL and I hope you never do, until you walk in her shoes and know exactly what she has been through. And still has a very long road in front of her. I am so glad that I have been her to help her. Rubbed her head at night as she screamed and cried herself to sleep. She is by far one if not the strongest women I have ever known. she is still standing. With so much uncertainty, so many unanswered questions, when all she wants is to know is what happened to her baby. She goes to bed overnight wondering what Brantleys last moments were like, was he scared, was he hurt? Still no answers! So those people that want to kicker while she is down. I dare you to walk a moment, let alone a day in her shoes. You should put your energy towards something that can make a positive impact on someone or something instead of hate. Again thank you so much for everyone's thought prayers and generosity. It has really meant a lot to Amanda and everyone who cares about her. Your amazing Amanda, stay strong. love you,
I want to again thank all the great people who have sent their condolences and made donations. Amanda will see her beautiful baby boy Brantley for the last time this afternoon. She has been so strong in more ways than anyone could know. She has had to deal with a lot this week. She is still standing and trying to think positive, even when she has had so much unnecessary negativity throw at her. My thoughts and prayers are with her. Stay strong Amanda, focus on only the positive things in your life right now. ignore all else.
The funeral is set for Saturday the 18th At 2:00 pm. The service will be at H. D. Oliver funeral home. 2002 laskin rd vb va 23454.