Ly needs a new wheelchair!

A new beginning......

most of you would have read or heard about my story,  how I become parylised within 2 hours of walking into A&E. It's a life changing experience and I still can't get over the shock of never walking again! 

This is where I need your help again! 

I am am looking to raise another £2400 for a new wheelchair, a wheelchair that is foldable so i can transfer from the wheelchair and into a car and dismount it so I can live an independent life again! 



This wheelchair folds up so small that I will be able to bring it across my chest into the passenger seat. 




If you can help in anyway what so ever, it be great!  (Aiming for that £6300 in total) 

In the mean time...... 








Boys r starting to grow up and hopefully starting nursery! Then I have more time for myself to do more rehabs!!! 

Take care of yourself and love everyone! Life to short!! 


 Thanks you everyone!!!!!!! 




History ...... 

3 chapters of Ly life ...
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Chapter 1 -

made the most of my life till the day I was admitted into hospital on the 3rd Aug 2015,
great loving parents/sister and brother, lovely wife and kids, and some great friends (near and far! People I have met, over the last few years, classmates that I haven't spoken to since primary school!! Secondary school, college, University , work and well as family!! ) ... What great guys u r! U will always have a spot in my heart and will always be here for you till I die!

Chapter 2 -

3rd Aug 2015 - Sunday 20th Sep 2015 - paralysed from the chest down due to a blood clot on my spine! Been in University College London Hospital since but been transferred to Stanmore.

The after care has excellent!! Thank you every one at Bernard Sunley, NRU, ICU and HDU, as well as all the physio -
I can not thank you enough from the bottom of my heart!

After the operation, I was given a 10% chance to walk again, but on Thursday 17th Sep, I was told that this 10% has been reduce to 0% and expect to be in a wheel chair for the rest of my life !

Sat 19th and sun 20th 2015 - weekend leave - these two days has been amazing! Ryan has never been so excited to see me home, brought so much tears to my eyes, I have finally seen Ivan walk for the first time and how he loves to bully Ryan! (But he still don't know who I am as I have only seen him a few times since being in hospital )

These two days falls in the same categories as my wedding day! And I will treasure it with all my heart!

Chapter 3 - Stanmore Rehabilitation and therapy (Spinal Cord Injury Centre)

Monday 21st Sep is the day when the new chapter begins !
Out with the old and in with the new!
My new life starts today!
Yes I will work hard!
Yes I will believe in myself!
Yes I will walk again even the doctors say I have NO chance!
And yes I will prove all them all wrong!

I might not have my legs. I might not be able to kick a ball with my sons, I might not be able to pick my sons up when they fall down.
But .. But I can still be a father to my two boys, I can still be a husband to my wife, and last of all still be a friend to you all! I haven't changed, it's still the same me but without legs!

It will be tough, extra tough from now on.... Family, kids, finance, etc!

The support you guys gave me has been out of this world! especially my wife (u have visited me every single day and I love you, I am sorry I can not continue to support you and our two boys the way I used to, but I will try my very best)

when I was at the lowest point of my life, u guys gave me strength to continue to live, u guys don't know how hard it is to look at 4 walls and a ceiling not be able to move from the chest down! I would cry myself to sleep and hope to wake up thinking it's a dream, but I know that's not going to happen!
My strength comes from my son! All he says is "where's dada" and that gets the tears flowing!
I know from that moment I have to work hard and become independent before they let me out of rehabilitation!

But I never been a quitter! I will give it 110% because I know 100% is not going to be enough! Need to make that 0% chance of recovery become 1%. Then that 1% into 110%

This is a mission impossible. Life will never be the same again!

Guys. U never know what's around the corner. Love your friends and family like its the last day of your life! Tell them how much they mean to u. The next time u see them could be the last time! Guys. Seize the chance! Enjoy the day! And always be safe!!