Superwoman needs help
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Hi I met someone online 3 years ago and decided to pack my family up and move here and make a life with him. He had nothing and noone when I moved here, I got an apartment and he had a place to call home and he could see his kids more and I thought we would live happily ever after. He had addictions and I thought I could save him, I stood in his way and it slowly tore our blended family apart.
Recently in April a higher up stepped in and made him leave and said he could not return until he did what they expected of him. He also could of just walked away from us and not do it, he chose to get help. He went to a 7 day detox and sucessfully completed it, he was told to complete intensive outpatient, we went above and beyond and he went to a 30 day impatient treatment trying to satisfy them into letting him come home faster.
I have been by his side the whole time no matter what has happened, he is a good guy and he just needed help. His family was never there and was done helping him and now it seems that I succeeded in something they couldnt or wouldnt do now they are here trying to take over and now they are trying to convince him to leave me, I am not the addict, they have no right to do such things and get in our way, seems like they are trying to blame someone. We have a hard enough path to recovery as it is we don't need this.
Its bad enough we have much more to worry about. He was currently unemployed because he had a well and pump job where there is no work in the winter, he actually was suppose to be back at work the day he left to go away. He lost his job to better his life. I was not working i was taking care of 5 kids and him and the house and I have some health issues.
Due to the past with addictions it put us in a bad financial situation, I had gotten a car title loan against my van to pay for bills. Since he left I have not been able to pay the car title loan and each day it goes up $7 in interest making it even harder for me to pay. I have 17 days left to pay before they reposess and each day I wait it goes up. Originally he was coming home to me this Wednesday May 18th, and we would have worked in for him to be employed while still jumping the hoops he still has many left to do. We were going to sell his car, and pay the loan payment and the rest of the bills and then save up to get him a car back, and we would have just lived with one car and shared it for awhile.
But now they are playing god and said no he can not come home now he needs to go away longer to a sober house, in which is unfair, he completed it successfully with no problems, sometimes higher ups are just not fair. But now It leaves me struggling even more, If he cant come home we cant sell his car to pay the loan, he will need his car if he is on his own. So if we can not sell his car I cant pay the loan and then they will come get it and I will have no vehicle for my kids and I.
I know alot of people need this stuff for dying loved ones and more extreme cases but why does it have to the ultimate worse before someone can ask for help. I told you the honest truth of everything and I am just struggling financially to the point where I am so worried it is making me become more depressed and less functional and this is the only thing I can come up with, if someone out there can please help me out, I would appreciate it so much.
Thank you Renee
Recently in April a higher up stepped in and made him leave and said he could not return until he did what they expected of him. He also could of just walked away from us and not do it, he chose to get help. He went to a 7 day detox and sucessfully completed it, he was told to complete intensive outpatient, we went above and beyond and he went to a 30 day impatient treatment trying to satisfy them into letting him come home faster.
I have been by his side the whole time no matter what has happened, he is a good guy and he just needed help. His family was never there and was done helping him and now it seems that I succeeded in something they couldnt or wouldnt do now they are here trying to take over and now they are trying to convince him to leave me, I am not the addict, they have no right to do such things and get in our way, seems like they are trying to blame someone. We have a hard enough path to recovery as it is we don't need this.
Its bad enough we have much more to worry about. He was currently unemployed because he had a well and pump job where there is no work in the winter, he actually was suppose to be back at work the day he left to go away. He lost his job to better his life. I was not working i was taking care of 5 kids and him and the house and I have some health issues.
Due to the past with addictions it put us in a bad financial situation, I had gotten a car title loan against my van to pay for bills. Since he left I have not been able to pay the car title loan and each day it goes up $7 in interest making it even harder for me to pay. I have 17 days left to pay before they reposess and each day I wait it goes up. Originally he was coming home to me this Wednesday May 18th, and we would have worked in for him to be employed while still jumping the hoops he still has many left to do. We were going to sell his car, and pay the loan payment and the rest of the bills and then save up to get him a car back, and we would have just lived with one car and shared it for awhile.
But now they are playing god and said no he can not come home now he needs to go away longer to a sober house, in which is unfair, he completed it successfully with no problems, sometimes higher ups are just not fair. But now It leaves me struggling even more, If he cant come home we cant sell his car to pay the loan, he will need his car if he is on his own. So if we can not sell his car I cant pay the loan and then they will come get it and I will have no vehicle for my kids and I.
I know alot of people need this stuff for dying loved ones and more extreme cases but why does it have to the ultimate worse before someone can ask for help. I told you the honest truth of everything and I am just struggling financially to the point where I am so worried it is making me become more depressed and less functional and this is the only thing I can come up with, if someone out there can please help me out, I would appreciate it so much.
Thank you Renee
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Renee Ann Labrie
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Athol, MA
