Willows fight!

Our daughter Willow was born on May 16th, 7 hours before my father passed away. It was a very difficult delivery and Willow's blood sugar was low, but a few days later everything stabilized and we left the hospital with a happy healthy baby.On May 28th I left to meet my sister for breakfast at Buttercream Bakery. Willow was crying in the car on the way there but abruptly stopped when parked in the parking lot. When I got to her car seat she wasn't breathing and we had to be sent by ambulance to Queen of the Valley NICU. We spent 4 days at Queen of the Valley going through test after test after test trying to figure out what was wrong, but to no avail. After the Physicians at the queen spoke with the neurologists at UCSF it was decided that we needed to transfer her there.My fiance and I have four other children that are currently staying with my mother while we care for willow. And all of this happened 12 days after my father, and my children's grandfather passed away. My father is the one that supported my mother and my family for such a long time.and now only my mother is working I have been without work since my father became ill and Willow was born to care for them. 
I have three other children who are living with my mom and she is now our Sole Provider well we are coping with Willow's illness and the loss of my father. Any help at this time is overwhelmingly appreciate it, thank you all for all of your help during this difficult time.