Help me get out of bad housing!
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Thanks for looking at my page! Here is the story:
For those of you know don’t know, I had to move out of my parents’ house as my mother and I both have MH problems and she doesn’t cope with hers at all, resulting in me getting a torrent of earache from her as every little thing that winds her up is my fault. Obviously this was a bad situation for me so I moved in with a friend.
The issue now is that several years on, my friend that I live with has graduated from “likes a drink” to “alcohol dependant”. He drinks, all day every day. The house is a bombsite. I asked if he would look after the cats while I was on holiday, he said yes. I came back to overflowing litter pans and cat poop all over the kitchen. Dishwasher? Don’t be silly. And he certainly doesn’t get the vacuum out or mop the floor. I’m trying to work full time AND living in a pigsty as I simply CAN’T keep up with cleaning HIS mess as well as mine after a full day at work.
This is bad enough, but things have now reached a crisis point. He doesn’t do anything to maintain the house, and it’s now showing damage and damaging the neighbours’ property. The neighbours have asked nicely several times and have finally snapped and informed us that they will be seeking legal advice with regards to the damage his failure to maintain his property has caused to theirs.
I could get a house share or lodge, but it would have to be with complete strangers and I don’t think that would be wise. What I’m trying to do instead is to raise some money towards getting a property of my own. I’d been saving for a deposit for a while, I have a good chunk of what I need, but unfortunately not enough to get a foot on the ladder yet. With the threat of legal action looming, I’m having to kick things into high gear.
If you can donate anything, please do, I’d appreciate it. If you want some custom jewelry, send me a message or check my Etsy store (http://www.etsy.com/shop/crystalmateria ). If you can’t donate, please signal boost, it would mean a lot to me.
Your donations will help me to regain some of the independence my mental health issues have taken from me and get me my own place where I am not having to clean up after everyone else after a long day's work. Thank you so much for looking and donating!
(Update, August 18th) My boyfriend has kindly offered a full fursuit as a reward for a donator! There is only one of this reward so bag yourself a unique item to say thank you for helping me out! Here are the details from him - the GoFundMe didn't give me enough space to put it in the reward description:
"You will receive a custom built fursuit of what ever character you can dream of or leave it up to Will and get something completly unique and made for you. Fullsuit with digitigrade max 5 colors."
An example of his work can be found here: http://www.furaffinity.net/view/17415369/ - or check out his FurAffinity page in general to see what he can do.
For those of you know don’t know, I had to move out of my parents’ house as my mother and I both have MH problems and she doesn’t cope with hers at all, resulting in me getting a torrent of earache from her as every little thing that winds her up is my fault. Obviously this was a bad situation for me so I moved in with a friend.
The issue now is that several years on, my friend that I live with has graduated from “likes a drink” to “alcohol dependant”. He drinks, all day every day. The house is a bombsite. I asked if he would look after the cats while I was on holiday, he said yes. I came back to overflowing litter pans and cat poop all over the kitchen. Dishwasher? Don’t be silly. And he certainly doesn’t get the vacuum out or mop the floor. I’m trying to work full time AND living in a pigsty as I simply CAN’T keep up with cleaning HIS mess as well as mine after a full day at work.
This is bad enough, but things have now reached a crisis point. He doesn’t do anything to maintain the house, and it’s now showing damage and damaging the neighbours’ property. The neighbours have asked nicely several times and have finally snapped and informed us that they will be seeking legal advice with regards to the damage his failure to maintain his property has caused to theirs.
I could get a house share or lodge, but it would have to be with complete strangers and I don’t think that would be wise. What I’m trying to do instead is to raise some money towards getting a property of my own. I’d been saving for a deposit for a while, I have a good chunk of what I need, but unfortunately not enough to get a foot on the ladder yet. With the threat of legal action looming, I’m having to kick things into high gear.
If you can donate anything, please do, I’d appreciate it. If you want some custom jewelry, send me a message or check my Etsy store (http://www.etsy.com/shop/crystalmateria ). If you can’t donate, please signal boost, it would mean a lot to me.
Your donations will help me to regain some of the independence my mental health issues have taken from me and get me my own place where I am not having to clean up after everyone else after a long day's work. Thank you so much for looking and donating!
(Update, August 18th) My boyfriend has kindly offered a full fursuit as a reward for a donator! There is only one of this reward so bag yourself a unique item to say thank you for helping me out! Here are the details from him - the GoFundMe didn't give me enough space to put it in the reward description:
"You will receive a custom built fursuit of what ever character you can dream of or leave it up to Will and get something completly unique and made for you. Fullsuit with digitigrade max 5 colors."
An example of his work can be found here: http://www.furaffinity.net/view/17415369/ - or check out his FurAffinity page in general to see what he can do.
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