<div>My abuser died this weekend.
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<div>I’ve spent the last 72 hours watching people talk about what a great man he was, and it has taken everything in me not to respond with the truth of who and what he is and if I should even be sharing this. 
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<div>I have sincere sympathy for his children and the people who loved him. Losing a parent is painful, I’ve experienced this myself, and I don’t wish that hurt on anyone.
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<div>His death does not absolve him from what he did. It does not change the trauma I lived through and continue to live with.  Where others may see the facade of a “good man”, I see a vile disgusting monster.
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<div>I will not pretend to be heartbroken. I will not participate in rewriting history. My peace comes from knowing he can never hurt anyone ever again.
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<div>As for whatever comes in the next life, I can only hope he is judged accordingly for the life he lived and the harm he caused.
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<div>But this post isn’t meant to give him a spotlight or create a debate about him. 
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<div>I want it to be a platform to help the children who are still being hurt.
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<div>The survivors who still don’t feel safe enough to speak.
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<div>The people who were ignored, dismissed, or never believed.
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<div>So instead of spending my energy on a man who can no longer hurt anyone, I’m choosing to do something that might help those who are still living with the effects of abuse.
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<div>Today I’m asking for donations for RAINN. Every dollar raised will go toward protecting children, supporting survivors, and giving a voice to those who have been silenced.
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<div>If you’d like to support, donate. If you can’t donate, share your time with an organization that helps those suffering from abuse, share your feelings with a friend, if this message speaks to you, just take a small step towards a better life however you can.
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<div>Let’s make this about helping the people who need it most.
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Dru Ahlborg

Jennifer Peterson

Erin Glassey

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