<div>Hi everyone ❤️
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<div>I wanted to take a moment to give an honest update on where things currently stand.
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<div>As many of you know, last year I began the journey of trying to adopt my three beautiful girls here in Tanzania, East Africa. Since then, I’ve worked hard to take every step possible,  obtaining my permit (which I received in March 2026), preparing for the legal process, and working toward having the support I would need through adoption lawyers in both Tanzania and the U.S., as well as a U.S. immigration lawyer who specializes in adoption.
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<div>This journey has meant everything to me.
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<div>However, behind the scenes, there have been many unexpected roadblocks. Recently, after meeting with social welfare, I was told that adoption is not be possible and that approval most likely will not be given in the future. To say this has been heartbreaking would be an understatement.
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<div>Because this situation involves many sensitive details, and I'm still choosing to stay , I can only share limited information publicly at this time. . I also want to be transparent that I am still seeking legal guidance and double checking everything with a lawyer before making any final conclusions.
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<div>But as of today, this is where things currently stand.
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<div>What has *not* changed is my commitment to these girls. I still plan to remain in Tanzania for the next couple of years, continue showing up for them, and support their education, goals, and future however I can. Adoption may look different than I originally hoped, but my love and dedication to them has never changed.
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<div>For those who have supported me, prayed for us, encouraged us, or simply followed this journey, thank you. Truly. Your support means more than you know.
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<div>As we navigate what this next chapter looks like, there are still ways to help support the girls’ future, including education, daily needs, goals, and transportation (we are currently working toward getting a reliable car as well). If you feel led to support, you can still donate here
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<div>We may be facing a different path than expected, but we are still moving forward, with hope, love, and determination.
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<div>With all my heart,
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<div>E’Layjiah
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<li>If we go over money will go towards future legal fee's, new clothing for the girls, school supplies, house essentials, bills (including school fees for next year), security, and all necessities.
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