<div>Hello, my name is Veronica Ong. For over 18 years, I was married to a man I now understand has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). It took me years—and the strength of my daughters—to see the truth: I was trapped in an emotionally, financially, and psychologically abusive relationship.
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<div> The Hidden Cost of Abuse
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<div>Throughout our marriage, I blamed myself. I worked hard to hold our family together, even as I constantly questioned his behavior—especially financially. I trusted him with my business, made him a director in my company, and supported him through countless questionable financial decisions. I even became a guarantor for a loan I never benefited from—a choice that now threatens everything I’ve built.
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<div>I didn’t know what NPD was until it nearly destroyed me. It wasn’t until my elder daughter said, “Mom, Dad is a narcissist,” that the fog began to lift. The gaslighting, the emotional control, the manipulation—it all made painful sense.
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<div>He also used violence against me. I stayed silent at first, hoping things could improve. But with the support of my daughters, I finally reported him. That was one of the most terrifying and empowering moments of my life.
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<div> Why I’m Raising Funds
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<div>Today, I’m bankrupt, emotionally drained, and fighting to regain my freedom. I’ve offered a €100,000 settlement to legally and financially separate from him—an amount he accepted. But I can’t access my only asset (my home) until the insolvency case is resolved, and I urgently need help to raise this money.
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<div>This house is in my name alone, purchased and maintained entirely by me. Still, he has demanded 40% of its value—despite having already taken large sums from me in the past through emotional coercion. This €100,000 is not something he deserves, but a way to finally end this torment.
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<div> How Your Support Will Help
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<div>Your donations will go directly toward:
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<div>The €100,000 settlement to finalize the separation and divorce.
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<div>Ongoing legal fees
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<div>Essential living expenses for myself and my daughters
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<div>Once I am legally free, I will sell my home and repay every euro raised here. I just need the chance to break free and start over.
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<div> Moving Forward, Together
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<div>I’m not sitting back. I’m making homemade kaya (a traditional jam) to earn every extra euro. My daughters are tutoring and working part-time on weekends. We are doing everything we can—but it’s not enough on our own.
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<div>This is more than a financial appeal. It’s a fight for freedom, dignity, and healing. A mother trying to protect her daughters and give them a stable future. Every contribution—whether it’s €5 or €500—brings us one step closer to peace.
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<div>If you can’t give, please consider sharing this page. Your support, in any form, means the world to us.
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<div>From the bottom of my heart,
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<div>Thank you.
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<div>With love and hope,
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<div>Veronica
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