JailBreak My Work Van

So about a month ago we were Moving. My wife whom I've been with for 18+ years and have 2 bOys with, decided she wanted her missed teenage years back. We weren't together then nor does she have any kids that old. I was driving my van, which I use for work to take a truck load to storage. It was rainy and slick and I hadn't been down these roads b4. I ended up sliding and high centering it on the curb, minor damage from a small tree in front but no other damage to anything. I didn't have a phone so I started huffing it to what was the closest gas station I knew was around. I really only knew my wife's phone number by heart not really any other. I called her to try and get get to come help me get it out. She then dropped the bomb that she had everything she wanted already and I was on my own. Omg. I didn't know what to do. After trying her and begging her to come, she refused and stopped answering. So I hiked it back up towards the van. By the time I got there the cops and impound tow truck had already taken it. I've had a real hard time getting money up to get it out. One do to the fact we were staying a ways out of town and there was no busses. Second do to the fact that I am a flooring installer and my tools are in the van under the bench seats and all the misc stuff from the house and move. I have procrastinated a bit, I was hoping to save my marriage and she said she was helping. We had the money to get it out little more than a week ago. My loving wife used the money to go have fun with her new frinds and I've been absolutely devastated since. We have 2 bOys who don't know what to do, Love their mom but she ain't really talking to them either. Please I need to get back up from this traumatic ordeal and get back to working and providing for my boys. Thank you for helping or even just reading.