Victims of an accused pedophile

MY CHILDREN AND I ARE WALKING THROUGH HELL!
Recently my husband, sole provider of our family of 4 was arrested. The horrific secret life he was leading included years of sexual assault of a minor child he is being charged with. This has destroyed our family in more ways than one. We are left with pain, questions, betrayal,  loss, and no income. No child or spouse support will be paid because hes incarcerated, no family for 1000 miles to help care for my 4 children. We sit alone, victims of the system. No safety net for us, no financial help for my children because their dad broke the law.  Ive used the common resources, it's not enough,  I'm shocked at the lack of help from our government,  clearly we cant be the first family in this position. The therapies, the trust,  the rebuilding, the roller coaster of emotions and the loss of so much will take years to recover from. I never thought I'd be in this position, I was always the mom who donated, gave, taught my kids to help others never thinking we would be in a spot like this. I never ask for help, but please consider anything. My goal is to keep my home as long as possible, so my kids dont have to start more of their life over. This in itself is traumatic enough. They lost a man they loved, who is now a complete stranger, how will they ever trust?  Their life will require so much healing because of a man who made horrific choices and we will never know or understand why.
*due to my children being minors and to protect their identity I chose to not share a photo. Sorry, I hope you understand.