Unexpected funeral and medical bills

Please share this story everywhere....I met Carlye in 1990 at a life recovery place called teen  challenge. It was at that point she thought me to be good looking but was too shy to tell me so. We went through the year long plus   program just barely knowing each other. She moved on with her life and struggled with addiction an abusive marriage and was able to come out of it  with three beautiful children. I myself went through a lot of the same issues. Fast forward 28 years...out of the clear blue sky Carlye made a comment on one my Facebook photos. "HANDSOME" was all it said. I came back with the reply "Really?"  Her response was I ALWAYS thought you were handsome" And therein started the dialogue about us maybe getting together to try for a life together..the only problem was she was California and I was in Idaho. She said well I guess I'll come to you being that I worked with my family. She said let's pray about it and we did and she was able to move to Idaho for almost the exact amount of money she had saved! It was a whirlwind romance and we fell hopelessly in love. Really we were perfect for each other! A match made in heaven! She immediately started working for the red cross as s phlebotomist and I continued with the family business. We were so happy that we made it official before God and everyone else on November 17 2018! We continued to be the happiest either of us had ever been! Over the month of June she had made numerous comments about not feeling well and being lightheaded and needing to see a doctor...but having used all her vacation time her work wouldnt give her any days to make the yearly appointment her insurance offered. And then on June 17th she was really bad but she put on her beautiful smile and went to her early work meeting where her bosses finally realized that she REALLY didnt look well so they told her she needed to see a dr. She immediately called me and asked me if I could go with her...I dropped everything and started headed her way which was an hour away. By the time I got there she was finished??? They told her she was dehydrated and have her something for the dizziness. She asked me if I would drive around with her and have lunch with her instead of racing  back to work. Of course I did.. it was while driving around with her that SUDDENLY out of nowhere she said she felt worse than ever and was so hot...then she seized up and her heart just stopped I immediately pulled over and tried to get her to respond to me...nothing!!! Then I jumped in the driver's seat to race her to the hospital and on the way there she died right in my arms!! After getting to the hospital and after 25 minutes more the got her heart beating again. Then we spent two weeks In the hospital with her in a coma and on life support. Eventually after all their processes and tests and everything they tried they finally let me know she would never come out of it! The last few weeks have been turmoil I dont wish on my worst enemy! Now I have to pay the deductibles and funeral costs none of which were planned for. My parents gracefully helped pay for a lot of it but I'm asking for help to be able to pay the rest.