Tabitha's Celebration of Life

My mother, Tabitha Gasperson Thompson, passed away and my family and I can not afford her cremation and memorial service. My Father, Steven Raymond Thompson, is disabled and on a fixed income. My Sister, Erica Jean Coffey, and I have no savings and there was no life or burial insurance on our mother.
I had to take out a loan just to pay for my mother's cremation. The 4,000 that I'm asking for help with is to pay for a cremation urn for her ashes, the memorial service, the pictures of her for the service, the obituary in the paper, after these expenses are paid for anything left will go to paying the loan back. Thank you for your help and sharing this.