Support the Malmquist Family
Ongoing medical and familial needs will exist for an extended period of time. Anna anticipates being hospitalized for the next 6-8 weeks and will then have at -home recovery that lasts even longer. During her hospitalization, visitation will be limited to family.
This diagnosis has added emotional and financial burdens that the family was not expecting.
Anna is a stay-at-home mom to 3 beautiful children ages 6, 3, and 10 weeks. While she is undergoing treatment, the family has added costs for childcare.
Her husband, Ryan, is committed to being by her side through this journey. He will be taking some unpaid leave from his job which adds another financial hardship to this story.
Additionally, Anna and Ryan will have medical costs that are incurred due to the extensive hospitalization and treatment costs. The exact amount and burden that the medical treatment will have on the family is unknown at this time, but we do know that they will need support.
Anyone who knows Anna will attest to the fact that she is the first person to offer help to those in need, a friendly smile or funny conversation to strangers, and is the last person who asks help of anyone.
Please consider donating on her behalf. She and her family greatly appreciate all of the love they are receiving in messages. We know that many people want to help. You can show your love and support with a donation to ease the financial hardships that the Malmquists are currently facing.
Anna would love to hear from you as well. You can send cards or pictures to her (no flowers or balloons, please) by contacting a common family member or close friend for their home address.
It is with absolute sadness that I inform everyone that her battle with AML is now over. Anna started Day 1 of her eternal life as of 9/2/17 around 11 am. Anna was an extremely loving wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend of so many. I am still at a loss of words through everything, so I am going to rely on Anna to bring this message to all of you. As you can imagine, I have had some sleepless nights, dating back to Friday night when everything started to turn so fast. Late into the restless night, I starting going through all of the pictures Anna had on her phone documenting this journey. One of her last pictures was of a page with the following message:
“REST WITH ME A WHILE. You have journeyed up a steep, rugged path in recent days. The way ahead is shrouded in uncertainly. Look neither behind you nor before you. Instead, focus your attention on ME, your constant Companion. Trust that I will equip you fully for whatever awaits you on your journey.
I designed time to be a protection for you. You couldn’t bear to see all your life at once. Though I am unlimited by time, it is in the present moment that I meet you. Refresh yourself in My company, breathing deep draughts of My Presence. The highest level of trust is to enjoy Me moment by moment. I am with you, watching over you wherever you go.
That was sign #1 for this post, the 2nd through text from a dear friend that I was able to attend church service with today.
“Anna is moving this message into my heart. It is her life message to find contentment in the gifts we have. She (like God) want us to: Love God. Love Others. Love the Gifts we have been given.”
Anna is my rock and has been for some time. September 5th marks 8 years from the day we said “I Do”. From that day forward Anna molded me into the person I am today, and has clearly prepared me to be a great father and friend if this time ever came.
Anna- The special memories of you will always bring a smile to my face and so many others. As hard as it was the time being by your side and seeing the strength you had was so incredible to see. You always have and always will mean so much to me and I promise to raise our children under the direction you have shown me over the years. The fact that you’re no longer physically here will always cause me pain, but you’re forever in my heart and that gives me strength and happiness. Happy Anniversary. Until we meet again.
With Love, Ryan
(Funeral announcement to come in the following days)
She started her 3rd round of the clinical trial on Thursday. Anna is undergoing a bone marrow biopsy today to determine her further treatment plan.
While Anna battles in the hospital, friends from all corners of her life are organizing a fundraising event to lift her family up. We wanted to post information here in case you have not yet heard of this event.
When? Friday, September 8 starting at 6:30pm
Where? The Wilds in Prior Lake, MN
What will be happening at the event? We will have food, music, silent auction items, and a cash bar.
How do I get tickets? Tickets are $30 per person and will be on sale until Monday, September 4th.
Don't live in the Shakopee area but want to attend? We are selling tickets ahead of time and they can be picked up at "will call" on the evening of the event.
We have attached a flyer with details for the event including names of people selling tickets and contact information.
We hope that you will join us. Anna loves people, and this evening will be a great event to bring all of her family and friends together in a community of love and support.
The pill takes longer to work; chemo would have been 5 days with a biopsy 10 days after completion. So we pray that this is the answer. It targets the FLT3 protein that is on the leukemic cells.
Once Anna meets baseline requirements of not receiving blood transfusions, neutrophils counts in which she is no longer neutropenic, baseline of hemoglobin and platelet counts, she will actually be able to COME HOME!!!
There is no timeline in which she will likely achieve this, but excited to see numbers grow and hopefully make it home at the beginning of July. Anna is excited to be part of something cutting edge and hopefully easy (or easier) on the body.
There is nothing like the idea of home after 25 days in a hospital.
The generosity of people near and far has been so humbling for Anna and her family. If you have time, read her CaringBridge post from June 22 to hear how much your prayers, donations, well-wishes, and help has meant to her and her family. https://www.caringbridge.org/visit/annamalmquist/journal
God is good.
Psalm 16: 8
I keep my eyes always on the LORD. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.