Our Little Warrior Rumi

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Our daughter’s name is Rumi Willis Cooper. She was born in to our lives on 28th March 2017 at just 2.03kgs. A full head of brown hair, the spitting image of her daddy but with my own eyes quietly staring back in to me. She is the smallest human I have ever held, and she is the strongest human we will ever know.

If you happen to see a photo of her or meet her in the Hospital you might see how timid and gentle she is, greeting your face with an enormous smile and bursting with her own unique personality that is larger than herself. She radiates wisdom and energy. She is tiny but she was not born premature. She is one of the rarest girls in the world.




After a complicated and closely monitored pregnancy we were somewhat prepared for our uphill battle to continue for a little while longer and anticipating a NICU stay. But we could never have grasped just how hard it might be for her, and how strong she was to arrive in our world at all.

Our Ru was diagnosed with Mosaic Trisomy 2, with Maternal Uni Parental Disomy 2.

Our Genetic specialists at Sydney Children’s Hospital have told us that there are less than 10 cases in literature. There have been thousands of prenatal cases that all end in miscarriage, termination or stillbirth. They are uncertain of how many others currently share this diagnosis, their best guess is 2-3 in the world. The eldest recorded age that they could trace is aged 3.

There is no prognosis or statistics available as there simply isn’t any.

Ru is currently recovering well from surgery at Sydney Children’s Hospital, where we spend most of our time either as an inpatient or outpatient (travelling down from home on the Central Coast, 2 hours away). Ru’s main medical teams consist of Paediatricians, Genetics, Gastro, Renal, Immunology, Orthopaedics, Dietetics and Speech Pathology.





Most days we can barely hold ourselves up let alone each other. We thought that we could just take each day as it comes and focus on the current battle. But with each new day came a new battle. This rollercoaster started nearly a year ago now, when I was told my water broke last November and admitted to Royal North Shore Hospital on bed rest from 24 weeks.

Pat and I would like to stress how uncomfortable we are to be asking for financial help and want to be completely transparent. We have already borrowed a few thousand from family to tide us over, but rent is due yet again. Pat and I haven’t been able to work due to caring for Ru around the clock (Pat had finished his Honours Degree just 2 days earlier). We have lived off what little savings we had, prioritising paying the rent for a house we barely get to live in and frozen meals each day while we split shifts in Hospital. Pat tried to work casual hours with a friend doing labouring, but never finished a day without a call from me in the Emergency room or in the back of an Ambulance.

We feel extremely lucky that we do have a roof over our heads, a small car to share and charities helping us with accommodation while living here in Hospital. We are even luckier to live in a country like Australia who provides such incredible public health care. This is so much more than other people have to get by with in times of crisis.

Ru’s health is invaluable and all of the money in the world couldn’t change her diagnosis and the uncertainty of it, but we would love to be able to afford more specialised care and opportunities for her. We wish the world around us would pause and wait for us to catch up, to not have all of these outside financial stresses weighing on us so heavily while we’re focusing on getting her as well, comfortable and independent as possible. It may takes months or it may take years. It may take thousands or it may take more. We have absolutely no idea what ‘goal’ to aim for as we don't know the level of care Ru will need over the years but absolutely anything would make a difference.

If you are willing and able to help our family through this time we would be so grateful. More than any words could ever reach….

How funds raised would be used:

- Private Health Cover for Rumi (only) to see a specialised Paediatrician.
- Physiotherapy, Occupational Therapy, Speech Therapy until NDIS application is approved for Early Intervention alongside the Cerebral Palsy Alliance.
- Medical and physical equipment as required (NG pump and tubing, medication, syringes, seats, chairs, walkers etc).

Any additional funds would go towards:

- Pay back or contribute to the medical and situational support given to us by Sydney Children’s Hospital, Gosford Hospital, Royal North Shore Hospital, Ronald McDonald House Randwick and Central Coast Kids In Need.
- Medical needs as required (G tubing, special food and supplements etc).
- Additional therapies when suitable such as Swimming lessons and Music therapy.
- Raising funds and promoting awareness to help the many others in similar, and much worse situations (see more below).





Pat and I have spent a lot of time in hospitals meeting parents, carers and families of unwell kids. Since sharing a little on Instagram I have been inundated with people from all over the world, expressing their empathy, support and similar situations. Pat and I can’t help but brainstorm about how we should try our best to raise their voices any way possible.

We have a dream of starting our own charity based resource focused on the carers and those closest to children with extremely rare disorders, but are aware our current situation leaves us unable to invest what we would like in this. If you have a personal experience to share, an idea to pitch or a resource to contribute towards making this possible please leave a note in comments below or email. Any additional funds raised here will go towards making this a reality. The very least we can do is start the conversation.

For anyone out there unable to contribute financially there are many other ways you could help Ru and families in similar situations. Please consider:

- Donating blood and plasma.
- Donating bedding, towels, toiletries etc to Ronald McDonald House (or similar), or organise your workplace to provide a meal one night per month for the families staying.
- Host an awareness night raising funds for a family, Hospital or Charity of choice.
- Donate any ‘thing’ you could spare to auction off (photographs, art, weekends away etc).
- Just give. Anything you can. A smile, a hug, a conversation, a coffee. These can be the most trying moments of our lives and every small act of kindness will be remembered.





Thank you, from Jess, Pat and Ru. X
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Bonnie Hanson
14 months ago

I live close by you and would love to bring you and Pat some healthy home cooked meals to lessen the burden for yourselves. I don't have much to give monetary wise but I can cook and would love to do SOMETHING. Xxx

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Tijana Lukovic
14 months ago

Didn't have much on my credit card but as much as was there i donated..i wish you all the luck on the world with your little warrior!

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Samar Hasan
14 months ago
5
5

I don't have much on my credit card but hope that what I donated would help as much as possible, would love to donate again soon. Sending you and your little Rumi so much love and encouregment, keeping her in my prayers ♡♡♡ Lots of hugs from Palestine ❤

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Konpi Chim
14 months ago
5
5

Hi Jess, I’ve followed your blog for years and was so excited to hear you were expecting at the same time as me! Riley was born 1 week before Rumi and all I ever wanted was a healthy & happy baby. Sending love from my little family to yours x

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Jessica Hibble
14 months ago
5
5

Keep being strong Jeremiah 29:11 Praying for Ru and your family

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Mariamónica Galván
14 months ago
2
2

It's life changing experience... but I'm amazed of the amount of people willing to help. In my hometown, in Monterrey Mexico, for the past couple of years they have started a treatment for a very rare type of cancer that only affects children. It is called DIPG and for the moment the rates of surviving this cancer are less than 1% I've been able to get to know families from all around the world, Italy, Greece, Sweden, France, Australia, Philippines, etc... they all came here hoping to save their children's life. Many of them (or maybe all of them) don't have medical insurance, so the amount of money they are investing is insane. Some of them are single mothers, others have their kids and babies on the other side of the world, it's a very heart touching situation. I've been struggling to raise money to help some of these families... the australian woman run out of money and her family doesn't even want to help... their relatives are ashamed she is asking for money. It is not easy to be heard, but I believe in a world full of amazing people like all the ones that are helping here. I really hope the best for your family, your baby girl and all the children that are fighting something similar or worse. I'm so glad you are helping people to get conscious of these situations, because it is a reality we all ignore while it is not happening to us or our loved ones. But we should always support each other's no matter what. Love from Mexico,

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Erica Hyland
14 months ago
2
2

Hand in hand

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Amanda Amaral
14 months ago
2
2

You and your lovely daughter are in my thoughts. I send you lots of love from Brazil❤️

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Maliha Mohiuddin
14 months ago
2
2

I am so sorry that your daughter and you both are in such a battle. My thoughts are with you all. You were one of the first bloggers I started following that made me get up and out to follow my dreams. My very best wishes will be with you

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Kim Gale
14 months ago
2
2

Hi Jesse, The first time i met you at my time i wanted to help you out with caring for Rumi. I haven't stop thinking about you and would love to catch up with you and help you as i know whats it like to spend years in n out of hospital and struggle financially. I am at Westmead for a Appt for my son on Tuesday if you are up for a visit.. Kim from My time Carer ❤

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Nikku Kohli
14 months ago
1
1

God bless your little Rumi. She will be in our prayers

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Emma Carberry
14 months ago
1
1

Keep fighting little Ru! Sending lots of love x

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Terry-Tigger Spencer
13 months ago

Sending your little one ALL my hugs and kisses, positive energy and prayers, hopes and dreams.

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Mahlet Nani Demeke
13 months ago

http://www.irdirc.org/about-us/goals/

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Mahlet Nani Demeke
13 months ago

I came across this site while researching about Ru. You may have done this already, perhaps your precious daughter might benefit from the organization. Maybe her provider can initiate/ access contacts on her behalf? http://www.irdirc.org/about-us/goals/ May Goodness strengthen you, her parents, as you support her throughout.

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Sandy Wildman
13 months ago

Wish I could help. Our little girl was born with rare as well. We travel 700km to Westmead Children’s hospital to get the care she needs. We feel the financial pressure so bad as well.

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Susan Buckland
13 months ago

You are blazing new trails with courage and love. Dig deep and keep going! For Ru's sake, remember to look after yourselves in the rare moments you can. Family is forever. Namaste.

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Mariamónica Galván
14 months ago

I can't imagine all the pain you and you family are going through... But I'm sure she couldn't be in a better place or with a better parents. Ru is a little warrior and she'll get through this! So as you. It's a life changing

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Yiva Kataria
14 months ago

i wish you all the luck on the world with your little warrior! GOD BLESS YOU.!

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Laura Mason
14 months ago

I am sending all my love and thoughts. Having my own little girl I was brought to tears. You have a little fighter and I hope that my small donations helps your beautiful family xx

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Philippe Painchaud
13 months ago

Rumi, you are definitely a little warrior :) Sending you hugs & kisses from Beijing

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13 months ago
Bonnie Hanson
14 months ago

I live close by you and would love to bring you and Pat some healthy home cooked meals to lessen the burden for yourselves. I don't have much to give monetary wise but I can cook and would love to do SOMETHING. Xxx

+ Read More
Tijana Lukovic
14 months ago

Didn't have much on my credit card but as much as was there i donated..i wish you all the luck on the world with your little warrior!

+ Read More
Samar Hasan
14 months ago
5
5

I don't have much on my credit card but hope that what I donated would help as much as possible, would love to donate again soon. Sending you and your little Rumi so much love and encouregment, keeping her in my prayers ♡♡♡ Lots of hugs from Palestine ❤

+ Read More
Konpi Chim
14 months ago
5
5

Hi Jess, I’ve followed your blog for years and was so excited to hear you were expecting at the same time as me! Riley was born 1 week before Rumi and all I ever wanted was a healthy & happy baby. Sending love from my little family to yours x

+ Read More
Jessica Hibble
14 months ago
5
5

Keep being strong Jeremiah 29:11 Praying for Ru and your family

+ Read More
Mariamónica Galván
14 months ago
2
2

It's life changing experience... but I'm amazed of the amount of people willing to help. In my hometown, in Monterrey Mexico, for the past couple of years they have started a treatment for a very rare type of cancer that only affects children. It is called DIPG and for the moment the rates of surviving this cancer are less than 1% I've been able to get to know families from all around the world, Italy, Greece, Sweden, France, Australia, Philippines, etc... they all came here hoping to save their children's life. Many of them (or maybe all of them) don't have medical insurance, so the amount of money they are investing is insane. Some of them are single mothers, others have their kids and babies on the other side of the world, it's a very heart touching situation. I've been struggling to raise money to help some of these families... the australian woman run out of money and her family doesn't even want to help... their relatives are ashamed she is asking for money. It is not easy to be heard, but I believe in a world full of amazing people like all the ones that are helping here. I really hope the best for your family, your baby girl and all the children that are fighting something similar or worse. I'm so glad you are helping people to get conscious of these situations, because it is a reality we all ignore while it is not happening to us or our loved ones. But we should always support each other's no matter what. Love from Mexico,

+ Read More
Erica Hyland
14 months ago
2
2

Hand in hand

+ Read More
Amanda Amaral
14 months ago
2
2

You and your lovely daughter are in my thoughts. I send you lots of love from Brazil❤️

+ Read More
Maliha Mohiuddin
14 months ago
2
2

I am so sorry that your daughter and you both are in such a battle. My thoughts are with you all. You were one of the first bloggers I started following that made me get up and out to follow my dreams. My very best wishes will be with you

+ Read More
Kim Gale
14 months ago
2
2

Hi Jesse, The first time i met you at my time i wanted to help you out with caring for Rumi. I haven't stop thinking about you and would love to catch up with you and help you as i know whats it like to spend years in n out of hospital and struggle financially. I am at Westmead for a Appt for my son on Tuesday if you are up for a visit.. Kim from My time Carer ❤

+ Read More
Nikku Kohli
14 months ago
1
1

God bless your little Rumi. She will be in our prayers

+ Read More
Emma Carberry
14 months ago
1
1

Keep fighting little Ru! Sending lots of love x

+ Read More
Terry-Tigger Spencer
13 months ago

Sending your little one ALL my hugs and kisses, positive energy and prayers, hopes and dreams.

+ Read More
Mahlet Nani Demeke
13 months ago

http://www.irdirc.org/about-us/goals/

+ Read More
Mahlet Nani Demeke
13 months ago

I came across this site while researching about Ru. You may have done this already, perhaps your precious daughter might benefit from the organization. Maybe her provider can initiate/ access contacts on her behalf? http://www.irdirc.org/about-us/goals/ May Goodness strengthen you, her parents, as you support her throughout.

+ Read More
Sandy Wildman
13 months ago

Wish I could help. Our little girl was born with rare as well. We travel 700km to Westmead Children’s hospital to get the care she needs. We feel the financial pressure so bad as well.

+ Read More
Susan Buckland
13 months ago

You are blazing new trails with courage and love. Dig deep and keep going! For Ru's sake, remember to look after yourselves in the rare moments you can. Family is forever. Namaste.

+ Read More
Mariamónica Galván
14 months ago

I can't imagine all the pain you and you family are going through... But I'm sure she couldn't be in a better place or with a better parents. Ru is a little warrior and she'll get through this! So as you. It's a life changing

+ Read More
Yiva Kataria
14 months ago

i wish you all the luck on the world with your little warrior! GOD BLESS YOU.!

+ Read More
Laura Mason
14 months ago

I am sending all my love and thoughts. Having my own little girl I was brought to tears. You have a little fighter and I hope that my small donations helps your beautiful family xx

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