Dave and Julie Hendrickson

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Julie and Dave just before her lung transplant

Dave, Julie and their three boys at her brother's wedding following her grueling rounds of chemo


Julie was able to come home for Christmas after an ICU stay at the hospital 



(written by Suzanne Higginson, David's sister) 

Just over 9 years ago my brother Dave married the love of his life, Julie Hendrickson, who also happened to be terminally ill with Cystic Fibrosis. When someone has been sick throughout their life, and told their life expectancy is maybe age 30, then a certain shift takes place in their perspective. That kind of perspective on life means they must find the “why” to keep on living.

When Julie was single, finding a spouse to start a family with was her WHY, it quickly shifted to having children after she was married. She worked tirelessly from a near life-ending lung infection in 2005 to come off oxygen in her mid 20's so she could feel "normal" when looking for a spouse. She was told she would never come off oxygen again. She came off. She met my brother shortly after and they married just over 9 years ago. She didn't have enough lung function to safely have children, and they explored surrogacy. After two failed attempts and courting several surrogate candidates, my sister came forward and offered the irreconcilable gift to carry Julie and Dave's child. That 3rd attempt at IVF (via surrogate) turned out to be Ben and Jack, now 7 year old twins.



As she neared the end of her life in 2010, her then 2 year old twins gave her another WHY. She was faced with the choice of an 80% chance of dying in the next 5 years or having a complete shift of lifestyle for a short period of time. Raising her boys was her WHY to live. She underwent a work up for a double lung Transplant when she had the flu and was less than 25% lung function. My brother remembers her slaving through the different procedures, with nurses and doctors telling her she didn't have to do them that day. She was transplanted 6 weeks after they turned in her work up. She was off oxygen within days, walking the day after, out of the hospital 9 days post op, and running 3 weeks later. She immediately shifted to wanting to carry a child. It was absolutely crazy what she was risking; everything. Yet she saw it as the ultimate sacrifice to bring another child into this world. That child will always know that she risked everything to get him here. Finding out she had stage 4 endometriosis, she pushed on and said to Dave "I just want to try. If it doesn't work, I can live with that. I can't live without at least trying." After 4 attempts at artificial insemination, Charles was born 7 months later.

About one year after Charles was born, Julie was faced with a rare aggressive Post Transplant Lymphoma (1 of 35 transplant patients of all types of organs in the last 18 years to get) and she had to find another WHY to live. She did. She fought to be here with her family, both immediate and extended. It has become increasingly important to her to be with her family; to have harmony in her family. She was cancer free after a brutal run of chemotherapy. Now she is faced with the damage that life saving drug regimen did to her transplanted lungs. She is battling to save those precious lungs. She has been in and out of the hospital for months now after being declared cancer free due to lung infections and neutropenic issues (little or no immune system due to chemo and anti-rejection drugs). My brother has had to hire help to care for his children while he is at work. Family and neighbors step in and help as much as possible but outside help has been necessary. She has multiple drugs she must take on a daily basis as well as the general costs that come from frequent hospital stays. Please help us raise money to bless this dear family and help make their financial load a little easier to bear despite the physical and emotional battles they have been fighting and continue to fight. Julie's life, and therefore Dave's life, will never be without physical challenges because of her cystic fibrosis, but we can help carry this load by financially easing the burdens that come from terminal medical care.

www.lungsforjulie.com
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"The beauty of the atonement of Christ is its like a bullet bike back to the path of righteousness; you pick up time and again when you screw up and He will forgive you helping you to do what may be more important: forgive yourself. Just remember, He will NEVER leave you. No matter what you do, He is always right there for you. Take it from the ultimate warrior Julie, not me."

(Taken from David's talk at Julie's funeral)

http://www.lungsforjulie.com

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Julie's funeral was so tender. It is obvious how many people's lives she has touched. Her determination, humor, testimony of God, love for her friends and family is evident. We will miss her deeply. We are better for knowing her. David is amazing. Jackson, Ben and Charles are resilient and have the best parents. Julie will be a constant presence in their lives.

Thank you again for the donations. The support this account has received is overwhelming and will help David so much!
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We will miss you beautiful Julie!
We will miss you beautiful Julie
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Lindsay Davis Blackburn
33 months ago
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I forgot to comment above. Trent and Carla are our good friends. God bless!

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Kim Forbush
33 months ago

I am sorry to hear about this. It's very hard dealing with Cystic Fibrosis. My son was born with Cystic Fibrosis and I know how difficult it is. I am hoping for the best for your family.

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Wendy Beesley
31 months ago

Many prayers and much love to your family.

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31 months ago
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Nancy Hovanic
32 months ago

Dave - you and the boys are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do please let me know. With Love, Nancy Hovanic

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Ellen Lee Pooler
32 months ago

I love you and your boys Dave and think the highest of Julie. She taught me so much and so have you. I'm grateful.

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32 months ago
Lindsay Davis Blackburn
33 months ago
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I forgot to comment above. Trent and Carla are our good friends. God bless!

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Kim Forbush
33 months ago

I am sorry to hear about this. It's very hard dealing with Cystic Fibrosis. My son was born with Cystic Fibrosis and I know how difficult it is. I am hoping for the best for your family.

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