Help Us Save Pamela Ames!

My wife's disabled mother who we take care of and live with recently suffered her second brain aneurysm and has been in the icu for 2 weeks now. We have spoken with her many times about death and emergencies and she clearly stated that she would never want a DNR in place. Well, between traveling back and forth to keep working and paying our portion of the bills Pam's sisters and my wife's brothers went behind our backs while we were home working for a few days to have a DNR put in place for the sole reason of a up and coming inheritance. We now have to come up with $400 for a consultation with an attorney to gain guardianship over her to have it lifted and to gain access to her accounts to pay her portion of the bills so we don't lose our apartment that we live together in. The extra money will be used for any further payments that may be needed if the consultation goes well. We thank anyone that can help as we have spent all our money traveling back and forth the 4 hour round trip to visit with her twice a week. Please help of you can and if you can't just pray for us because we can use every prayer we can get right now. We trust the Heavenly Father will guide us through this dark time and pray for his love and light to surround Pamela every day!