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Treatment for our Daughter

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Raised by 153 people in 9 months
Created November 18, 2017
We want to start by saying thank you for taking the time to read this. We live in a busy world where it can be hard to find any time for ourselves. We appreciate that you have gifted us some of that time by reading on. Our daughter suffered abuse by a trusted family member secretly for years. She now struggles with major depressive disorder and suicidal ideation. Though it was hidden well under her smile, charisma, and 4.0 GPA things really came to a head last year.

Multiple hospitalizations and suicide attempts showed us the true nature of her struggle. We took a loan to send her to a wilderness program that we believe has saved her life. She stayed 12 weeks in the desert and never once complained. She carried a 50 lb pack over 50 miles and learned how to bust fires. She worked very hard on herself and on her relationships. It became very clear to parents and professionals working with her that, although she was a star pupil and had dedicated herself to getting the very most out of her experience, she had more work to do in order to learn how to manage her mental and emotional difficulties.

Therapeutic boarding school was strongly recommended and, after her self-advocating for what she needed, we got on board. It doesn't feel like a choice when you look at what eventually happens to folks with the struggles our daughter has who don't receive help.  Multiple therapists have told us that we need to accept that she could one day be successful at taking her life and to find a way to make peace with it. We refuse to do that. Instead we found folks who specialize in helping young woman with struggles like our daughter. Through the help of professionals we finally found the right fit for our girl: a reputable facility known for their work with kids with similar struggles as hers as well as their treatment these young people.

"Joanne", a song by Lady Gaga, with it's line "Girl, where do you think you're going?" became an anthem for our daughter and eventually our family. Though written for Gaga's aunt, who died of lupus at 19, its meaning served as a call to keep fighting, to stay alive to see better days. Our daughter sang it at the top of her lungs many times over on her way to boarding school.

We have decided to put everything we have into our daughter. In our minds there is no better investment. We have donated our wedding fund and savings toward our first home. We have committed to significant lifestyle changes in order to make financially available all we possibly can. Unfortunately we still fall far short of what we will need. I am just returning from checking her into her new home at the therapeudic boarding school. Her first and last month is paid there but we still have to come up with $8,500.00 a month. She's required to be there a minimum of 16 months but it is quite possible she may need to stay even longer. That's a great deal of money for some barely-middle-class folks.  

We know our goal is audacious but our daughter's needs leave us no choice. We believe so deeply in this young woman and what she is capable of and truly believe that this time at therapeutic boarding school will give her the opportunity she has needed to reclaim her life. If you feel called to make a contribution we would be beyond grateful. If you can't give but want to support us please repost and keep us in your prayers. It is sad to us that we live in a world that charges so much to get our loved ones the help they need, limiting access to services to the select few but that is our world and we can't change that today.

Thank you again for taking time to read about our journey. We wish you well on whatever path you find yourself on at this time. Blessings from the Angerman- Galactic household to yours!

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Ok it's been a while, we've been really fortunate to make it this far. And no one is more grateful than Antoinette. Here's a quick thank you from her. We have until April 30th to raise about $8k. Please read her story and consider a donation. Just as good, share this link!
Thank you from Antoinette
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A message from Nettie, thank you all so much.
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I just want to say thank you for helping us get this far. Nettie is doing well. She is working hard and facing all the challenges that come her way. Her grade are great, she is making friends. She misses home I am sure her siblings most of all. Through facing her trauma she is experiencing some uncomfortable stuff but showing up to the challenge like the warrior she is. We have last month covered and are busting our butts to figure out this month. We are about half way there with two more weeks to come up with another 5k. I know we can and will! If we could ask you all for more help by please sharing the campaign a couple times this week. Thank you in advance! It takes a village✌
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Rachel and I spent 5 wonderful days with our girl in Montana over Christmas. After spending some time with her, seeing the enormous progress she's already made, it's very clear to me how important it is for her to stay at this school.

Thanks to all who've donated, we have enough to pay for her next month. But we desperately need to build up enough for February's payment.

Please continue to share our story. Love to you all!
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Raised by 153 people in 9 months
Created November 18, 2017
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