Help us find our son Lance Perkins

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Raised by 38 people in 4 months
Donna Bastiani Perkins  HONOKAA, HI
Our son Lance was in San Diego, California where he was working on the Fiesta De Reyes Presents Casa De Las Calaveras event.  On the evening of Sunday the 23rd of October, Lance called 911 complaining of blackouts and was taken to the UCSD Medical Center emergency room.  Lance discharged himself around 10PM due to a heavy wait time, and on foot headed north on Front Street and westbound on Dickerson (or Dove) according to security cameras.  Lance called 911 several times afte this and as far as we know his phone battery has died.  Lance has been missing since the last registered call Monday morning at 6:16AM.  Lance has medical conditions and takes medication and we are extremey concerned.  The police are involved and we are all doing as much as we can to find Lance.  Lance went missing wearing a black jacket, tan slacks and tan shoes.  

Lance has the biggest heart and is the kindest man you will ever meet.  He calls us everyday and constantly checks in with us so it is very concerning that we haven't heard from him. He also helps people in his Anaheim, California community and makes everyones life better for being in it.  It's not like Lance to just go missing.  

We are asking for your help to raise the funds to hire a private investigator who can focus on this one case and really be on the ground searching in San Diego, California. The private investigator can share information with us that police cannot. 

There is a retainer fee for the investigator as well as other expenses for a private investigator to take on this case that unfortunately we do not have. This is the most heart breaking situation we have ever been in and we need to find our son.  It's been a long time and we need to make sure he is safe.

The money will help us to pay for the private investigator as well as getting Lance the medical help he needs. 

Any donation is greatly appreciated and no amount is too small. Please help us find our son! We also hope and pray no one ever has to go through an experience like this.

CASE NUMBER: 16043895
All point bulletin is out nation wide B.O.L.O.

All our thanks, 
-Jerry and Donna Perkins


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Update 15
Posted by Donna Bastiani-Perkins
12 days ago
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Sue Cassidy Thanks for your comment. We stay positive and are receiving lots of support from the police, media and the public!

Thank you everyone
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Update 14
Posted by Donna Bastiani-Perkins
18 days ago
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DAteline article
MISSING IN AMERICA MAR 6 2017, 3:38 PM ET
Family and Friends Hold Out Hope As Search Continues for Lance Perkins in San Diego
by RACHAEL TROST
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The last time Donna Perkins talked with her son, Lance, he told her he was having blackouts. She told him to call 911 and go to the hospital.


Lance Perkins Perkins Family
He was taken by ambulance from his hotel in San Diego to UCSD in Hillcrest. Three hours later, security cameras caught him walking out of the hospital.

He never returned to his hotel. And he never called his mother back.

That was more than four months ago. Lance has not been heard from since.

"It's been difficult. Very difficult," Donna Perkins, Lance's mother, told Dateline as she sat with Lance's father, Jerry, in their home in Hawaii. They say they've been in a state of panic over the last few months, unsure of what to do to find their boy.

"It's like you're in a rat's maze," Jerry said. "Who to talk to, how to get people to help, where to turn." Donna added, "People don't just go 'poof' and disappear."

Lance lives in Anaheim, California, but had traveled for work to San Diego to cover Casa De Las Calaveras, an event that coincides with the annual Day of the Dead Celebration. He's held a number of jobs in the arts and events area over the years, and has written for several publications including Rage Monthly, an LGBT publication for San Diego, Orange and Los Angeles counties.

Lance called his mother after he carpooled down the coast and said things were going well.

Then, on the night of October 23, 2016, the phone call came about the blackouts. It's not the first time Lance has had health issues, his parents said.

"He's had a number of ailments and issues since he was young," Donna told Dateline. "When he said he was having blackouts that day, I told him he had to go to the hospital right away."

It's unclear if Lance was treated that night or not. His mother said she learned from officials that Lance had waited for three hours in the emergency room to be seen. One account said Lance became impatient and walked out, while another staff member told her Lance was officially discharged that night. Because of privacy laws, it's difficult to know exactly what happened.

When Lance didn't phone his mother back that night or the following day, his parents became concerned. Lance would always call. They reached out to friends, none had heard from him. They then phoned San Diego police to report him missing.

It's extremely uncharacteristic of Lance to simply vanish. More alarming, is what Donna says she learned from Lance's phone records. He is still on their cell phone plan, so they had access to whom he was calling that night.

Donna reiterated to Dateline what she's spoken about in previous interviews: that Lance had made several 911 calls in the hours after he left the hospital. He also made two phone calls to friends around 4:00 a.m. the next morning. Neither friend picked up and Lance didn't leave any messages.

It's those 911 calls that stick with Donna.

"Two of them were between 14 and 17 minutes long," Donna told Dateline. "Somebody who is planning on disappearing would not call 911 that many times."

Denise Penn, a close friend of Lance's, echoed Donna's concern over his disappearance. The two had worked together on a number of charity projects and events over the years, including the Anaheim Chocolate Festival and Rock the Vote.

Her concern circles back to Lance's prior health issues.

"He could be confused in a treatment center somewhere. We just don't know," Denise told Dateline. "He's not a person who abuses drugs or alcohol, so that's not it at all. It's terrifying not knowing where he is."

Denise traveled down to San Diego in November and stood outside the hospital where Lance was last seen. She placed fliers with his photo throughout town. No one imagined it would now be more than four months since Lance was last seen.

"I just hope we can bring him home," Denise said. "His parents are such caring people. And he's never, ever had anything but wonderful things to say about them. They deserve answers."

Officials with the San Diego Police Department are investigating, but little information has been released in connection with the case. Authorities have reportedly conducted several searches, but few clues have been found.

The official investigation has been a source of frustration for Lance's parents, who say they are concerned about the way their son's case is being handled. The San Diego Police Department did not return Dateline's request for comment as of Monday afternoon.

Lance's loved ones simply want to be sure he is OK. They are urging anyone who may have seen him, or is in the area, to keep an eye out.

"The investigator told us he's not in jail and he's not in the morgue. Which means he's out there," Lance's mom Donna told Dateline. "All that we want is to know that he's safe."

Lance Perkins is described as 6'1" tall, weighing 190 lbs., with brown hair and brown eyes. Anyone with information regarding his case is urged to contact the San Diego Police Department at (619) 531-2000.

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FIRST PUBLISHED MAR 6 2017, 3:38 PM ET
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Update 13
Posted by Donna Bastiani-Perkins
2 months ago
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We have talked with the Anaheim police department and they are contacting the San Diego police department in an effort to find Lance.
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Update 12
Posted by Donna Bastiani-Perkins
2 months ago
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We talked to the San Diego Police and they say that there have been sightings of Lance in the Hillcrest area and one by an off duty officer.
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We appreciate all your help and kind thoughts
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Sue Cassidy
12 days ago

I check back every now and then to see if Lance has turned up. I can't imagine how upsetting this has been, but he has not been forgotten. Stay hopeful and positive.

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Lisa Larivee
23 days ago

I just wanted to pass along that I saw a man that very much resembles this man at Days Inn 2200 S Harbor Blvd, Anaheim I was drawn to him because he seemed to need help he later went across the street to sit under some trees at an apt complex across the street. I didn't have time to check on him but kept thinking about him afterward. I hope it was him and you are able to be united. I had a feeling he my stay in that area hopefully the Anaheim police can find him for you. I should mention he was wearing only thermal shirt and pants but no shoes. He was carrying a bag with handles and a bottle of wine hope that's not too much info there was something about him that I thought there had to be people out there that cared for him but he was in rough shape. I would go back and look if I could but I wa only in Anaheim for a du for a tour and had to leave. Can't stop thinking of him though. Prayers for your family again I truly hope you find him.

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Kathryn Mansell-Hamann
3 months ago

I am so sorry about the disappearance of your loved one. . donate as soon as possible, my family is searching right now for Stacey Smart, in northern California., She is my daughter in law's mother. I hope you do not mind that I posted your flier on our new Facebook group, MISSING BUT NOT FORGOTTEN IN THE EMERALD TRIANGLE. AND OTHER AREAS. We will continue to post his flier and share it on social media as long as necessary. I hope he is found soon., sincerely, Kathryn Mansell-Hamann

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Karen S. Hight
4 months ago

Hi Lance is a friend/acquaintance of mine and I have been sharing like crazy especially after seeing this which tells the story. I was doing some searches online and found the Nigerian News covering his story which I found to be kind of weird. Here is the link: http://www.nigeriannewspapers.today/2016/11/04/police-search-for-missing-man-with-medical-condition/

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$1,830 of $10k goal

Raised by 38 people in 4 months
Created November 5, 2016
Donna Bastiani Perkins  
LS
$50
Louis Scheffler
2 months ago
CW
$100
Charity Wood
2 months ago
KC
$25
Kacee Colter
2 months ago
$50
Anonymous
2 months ago
LB
$25
Linda Bates
3 months ago
NT
$100
Nikki Trammell
3 months ago
LW
$25
Lance Webber
3 months ago
$25
Dawn Ro
4 months ago

I keep checking for news. Donna, is there ANYTHING???

$25
Anonymous
4 months ago
TS
$100
Tara Sheridan-Wick
4 months ago

Love ya Lance! You and your family are in thoughts and prayers.

Sue Cassidy
12 days ago

I check back every now and then to see if Lance has turned up. I can't imagine how upsetting this has been, but he has not been forgotten. Stay hopeful and positive.

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Lisa Larivee
23 days ago

I just wanted to pass along that I saw a man that very much resembles this man at Days Inn 2200 S Harbor Blvd, Anaheim I was drawn to him because he seemed to need help he later went across the street to sit under some trees at an apt complex across the street. I didn't have time to check on him but kept thinking about him afterward. I hope it was him and you are able to be united. I had a feeling he my stay in that area hopefully the Anaheim police can find him for you. I should mention he was wearing only thermal shirt and pants but no shoes. He was carrying a bag with handles and a bottle of wine hope that's not too much info there was something about him that I thought there had to be people out there that cared for him but he was in rough shape. I would go back and look if I could but I wa only in Anaheim for a du for a tour and had to leave. Can't stop thinking of him though. Prayers for your family again I truly hope you find him.

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Kathryn Mansell-Hamann
3 months ago

I am so sorry about the disappearance of your loved one. . donate as soon as possible, my family is searching right now for Stacey Smart, in northern California., She is my daughter in law's mother. I hope you do not mind that I posted your flier on our new Facebook group, MISSING BUT NOT FORGOTTEN IN THE EMERALD TRIANGLE. AND OTHER AREAS. We will continue to post his flier and share it on social media as long as necessary. I hope he is found soon., sincerely, Kathryn Mansell-Hamann

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Karen S. Hight
4 months ago

Hi Lance is a friend/acquaintance of mine and I have been sharing like crazy especially after seeing this which tells the story. I was doing some searches online and found the Nigerian News covering his story which I found to be kind of weird. Here is the link: http://www.nigeriannewspapers.today/2016/11/04/police-search-for-missing-man-with-medical-condition/

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