we live really frugally now, but things are tight. i am finally able to get a job again bc we finally procured a caregiver! i want to be able to afford equipment he needs, like a new chair, bc insurance is dragging its heels. to pay for utilities and groceries without immense stress. buy our daughter school clothes since she begins kindergarten and has to wear uniforms (just a public school!) keep our minivan bc it fits his wheelchair. everyday expenses, without fearing for our future.