God where do I start 
My bother lived in Japan for the last 16 year 
He married a Japanese girl and had 4 beautiful children together 
Unfortunately the last child was a miscarriage 
After that their marriage went down hill and they spilt up and he came back home to England to live.
He was totally devastated by this and to cut a long story short he died in a Hospice a year later of Terminal Cancer within a week of diagnosis.
I am his (was) his eldest sister we lost our Mother when I was 21 married with twin girls
My brother was only 16 years old at the time.
The waste of time so called father had remarried and had a new family so like I said the waste of time father wasn’t there when any one of us needed him.  
 My brother rang him from the hospital to tell him how poorly he was before he was transferred to the Hospice and all he could say was how my brother never visited him . 
Anyway now to the next part 
My ex husband was supposed be my brothers next of kin because he and the waste of time father  had had words on the phone who incidentally didn’t visit him once in the hospital or hospice 
The father or the ex husband 
I lost my brother on the early hour s of Monday morning my ex husband decided he didn’t want to be my brother s next of kin anymore and handed it over to us his sister s . 
My younger sister did a go fund me all over Facebook raising nearly £5000
for my brother s Funeral and headstone. Lucky her
That was the Monday 
I had twin daughters to the ex husband 
on the 1st of May 4 days after my  brother died I found my eldest twin daughter dead at her home aged 33 
The sister who raised the money for the brother offered to LEND me the money to help me Cremate my child which I followed her wishes as I would have buried her 
Anyway I could go on and on with this there’s much more that I could say but won’t
needless to say I hate every single one of the so called family 
I absolutely hate having to ask strangers to help me buy an Urn for my eldest twin daughter 
But if you can help I thank you in advance


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Angela Wellburn 
New Silksworth, North East England, United Kingdom
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