To support the family of Stanley Oducayen Aspili

"Many of us gave some but Stanley gave all" 


Despite being a man of few words, Stanley’s kind and soft-spoken presence has influenced the lives of many. A caring husband to his wife Gigi and a loving father to his three daughters Danielle (19), Issa (18) and Isabella (13), Stanley’s bright energy and kindness was boundless. As a Registered Nurse, Stanley displayed bravery everyday with the potential to expose himself to COVID-19. Through sickness and in health, Stanley loved and cared for his wife Gigi - an LVN who was also diagnosed with COVID-19. We are unsure how Stanley contracted COVID-19. Regardless, his selfless actions unfortunately led him to contract the virus and on January 1st, 2021, Stanley passed away, leaving his three daughters to shoulder the emotional and physical burden of caring for their ailing mother.


Gigi has had to stay strong while the hospital's COVID-19 restrictions limited her final moments with her husband. Isolated due to COVID-19 quarantine protocols and heartbroken from losing their Dad, Danielle, Issa & Bela have bravely and selflessly taken Stanley’s role as her caretaker while shouldering the emotional burden of losing their father. They have displayed incredible compassion and wisdom beyond their years throughout this ordeal. The emotional toll they face every day is unimaginable. 


On behalf of Stanley’s grieving family, we extend our deepest appreciation for all the messages and condolences you have sent to Stanley's wife and children. If Stanley’s story, character or family has touched your heart, we would appreciate any donation to help relieve the financial burden due to Stanley’s unexpected passing. Donations will go toward covering living and medical expenses, funeral expenses and the girls education. Your contribution, no matter how big or small, will give some peace of mind amidst this tragedy. 


We pray that Stanley’s family will get through this hardship and that the pandemic will be over soon. Please stay safe and follow all the COVID-19 protocols that are in place in your area. Let’s also continue praying for the safety and health of our frontliners who continue to battle COVID-19.


With many thanks,

The family of Stanley Aspili: his loving wife and children, manongs, manang, nieces and nephews.