To save a life, for saving mine

The Photo shows my daughter and her wonderful husband Norman. I can go on forever talking about him, his dedication to the family, the many things he's done to help people in need, the kindness shown to people he never met before. When I first saw Norman, I panicked ! I being from Glens Falls N.Y, would never have thought my daughter would have a relationship outside of her race. I told my husband about him and he told me that Norman was the kindest person he had ever met. It was him that introduced Amy to Norman. He met Norman at the car dealership. Norman was Sales Manager.  They became friends. A year later, My husband was loosing his sight and was unemployed so he wanted to sell his car to pay for eye surgery. After talking to Norman, he returned home with the car and was set to have the surgery paid by Norman who also paid our Rent for the 3 months ahead. I had no knowledge, and yes I really misjudged him. I found  that he took care of his mother also . Within one year Amy and Norman were married. The following year, my husband went to the hospital . They kept him overnight and he died. Norman and Amy invited me into their home and I've lived with them ever since. I'm now 78. Norman loved his mother so much! He sacrificed his job when finding that she had developed bladder cancer. He wanted to be there for her. She passed within the year. Norman then started a transportation company, and it was going great. As a family, we wanted it to grow. In September of last year we went on a family vacation together. When we returned, Norman complained that his leg was in pain. Knowing that he was uninsured, he refrained from seeking medical attention for 3 months. Finally, Amy talked him into going to the emergency room. From there, he was sent to a clinic. It's now January, 2020 .When his blood was drawn and tested, his PSA was 191. The next day he was sent to the medical center to visit a urologist. It was confirmed in 4 days. Diagnosed with Stage 4 prostate cancer. Bills added to his life so heavy. Too late for Obamacare enrollment. His treatment is ADT. Lupron, Zytiga and Prednisone. Then comes Covid 19. Total closure of our city, no income from work, living on credit cards. PPP loan never gotten, EDIL loan never gotten.  40 companies only received those in S.C .   HE  prays everyday and night. A strong believer in God! He brought me closer to God, I must admit . He would never have done this for himself! It's I , Carol Beahan, who ask for your help today. Help for someone who would give his life to help others as he has helped me, my husband, his mother, my daughter and so many. Your kindness, will help him and us survive. With your help, I can help someone who I could not have lived without. At 78 years of age, all of my friend have passed. I have no where to turn.  Please help! Thank you,  Carol
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