Update! 1/29/25
Yesturday, the 28th I got a second surgery.
Everything went well mostly surgery wise but recovery has been hard. I have been ppeeing and walking but they had to insert a ng tube down my nose, into my throat and into my stomache. Was horrible. After all of the night and today it was just removed. Im sore, and the gasses are making my shoulder hurt p bad. I will be hopefully released tomorrow afternoon.
At 1pm i finally got jello and sprite!!!
I could super use help if anyones able to share, donate, or help with small things Id super appreciate it
Update <3 1/17/25
Thank you to everyone whose helped me. Everyone sharing, boosting my posts, donating, and helping out has my hearfelt gratitude. I have to get a second surgery on the 28th. I will be in the hospital for 2-7 days after to recover there then a month or so in recovery at home. These last few months have been a lot.
I am about 300 behind on electric, and have other bills racking up. My car situation which hasnt been ideal the last few months is rapidly getting worse. The rack and pinion along with other issues mean its a matter of time. I am looking for resources/help with a car. I have been unable to work since december 1st 2024.
Resources to help with finding a car/leads on decent but not expensive cars is helpful. Resources in general are helpful.
I depend on my car for work and to get to my MANY appointments. My car not only supports me, it supports my partner and pets, my grandmother and aunt for dr apps, groceries, medical emergencies and general needs
I am trying to do what I can but a lot is slipping. Please help if you are able, sharing my gofundme or just encouragement makes a huge difference.
Thanks all <3
UPDATE 1/3/2025
I got less ideal news. Afyer reviewing things they want me to get a second surgery. I found out Monday. I was scheduled for Thursday am but they want Urologists to place stints before the surgery now and half way into drinking the colon prep was informed I was going to have to wait. I now need the wall of fat the tumor was attatched to removed, any cancer they find, and they have to take part of my colon. I havent heard from them yet but they said it will be a couple weeks so not the most ideal start to my year but Im hoping I can get surgery and recover well.
UPDATE
Hey all, it's Nox. I had to have emergency surgery on Tuesday/Wednesday (December 3rd/4th). My appendix was found to be enlarged that Sunday before when I went to the ER. I went back tuesday and they later transferred me to Franklin Hospital to get emergency surgery. I came out of surgery shortly after midnight/Wednesday and was then informed my appendix was behind my other organs and attatched to a wall of fat in my back. There was also a mass on the end of my appendix that they have now determined was a neoendocrine tumor.
The appendix and mass broke up when they were removing it but they are confident they got things removed and are hoping that with more frequent ct scans they can make sure nothing ever comes back. So fingers crossed on that. I have been told that I am not allowed to work until January 1st 2025 but even when I return I will not have employment and will have to look for another job I was informed basically.
My other health issues have made it very hard to do much and I am having to rely on a lot of help from my family and partner.
Anything you can do to help is appreciated. Please share this gofundme if you can and donate if youre able to.
Thank you to everyone who has helped me this far. <3

