
Support Jennifer After Jim's Sudden Loss
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Dear Family and Friends -
My dear friend Jennifer's husband, Jim Ellis, passed away unexpectedly on February 4th after a brief illness. Jim and Jennifer were inseparable, and along with intense grieving she is now unexpectedly in a one income house with two mortgages ($3800 monthly), plus expenses that include those of handling the details surrounding her beloved's passing.
Jim had been ill since early August. Aside from two ongoing clients, he was unable to work for most of that time. In addition, further exacerbating the couple's financial issues, tasks around the home could not be performed due to complications from his illness.
Jennifer's sister Kristin and I are setting up this GoFundMe to try and make things less financially complicated for her and their young puppy, Ryona, who they adopted last August.
Jim was a champion for humanity and had created many films, including one aimed at education surrounding prevention of child exploitation and another that shed light on the mental health of law enforcement due to post traumatic stress, among many other films and writings. Jim was a 25 + year member of the international men's organization MDI (https://www.mentordiscoverinspire.org/), Jim was also a Rick Russell Award recipient and editor of the MDI Legacy Magazine (https://legacymag.org). He was extremely committed to supporting men in being their very best selves in life and relationships. He gave so much to the community and we are asking for the community to please help wherever you can. No amount is too small and it will be most appreciated.
This GoFundMe is to help her pay for the following:
Final Resting Plans for Jim
Living Trust Attorney
The two mortgages
Household expenses (power, water, car, necessary home repairs including a severe termite infestation that will cost thousands of dollars to remedy, and more)
If you are someone who would prefer to send Jennifer a gift card instead of donating through GoFundMe:
Gift cards for the following would be greatly appreciated (we can supply you with Jennifer's personal email and / or mailing address.) :
Starbucks - www.starbucks.com
Mindful Culinary Creations -https://mindfulculinarycreations.myshopify.com/products/mindful-culinary-creations-gift-card
SoulSphere Wellness - (email Dione Gadler to purchase a gift certificate: https://soulspherewellness.com/connect/
Target - Target.com
Amazon - Amazon.com
If you are unable to provide financial assistance but still want to help, please consider supporting with the following:
Pet Sitting
House Cleaning
Yard Work
Minor Home Repairs
We are so grateful for Jennifer and Jim's community but do humbly request that Jennifer's privacy is respected and that no intimate questions regarding her loss at this very upsetting time are asked.
Please know how much she appreciates every email, text, and card she has received. She is feeling very overwhelmed right now with her grief and all of the legalities. Being a woman of integrity, she regrets that she has not yet been able to thank everyone who has reached out. She wants everyone to know she is so very grateful for the outreach and support and will reply in gratitude as soon as she is able.
Love and Blessings,
Kristin (sister) and Dawn (soul-sister)
Organizer and beneficiary
Dawn O'Creene
Organizer
Lemon Grove, CA
Jennifer Ellis
Beneficiary