Support a Dad's Battle to Keep His Daughter

update: I’ve been able to accumulate $650 towards the goal. So I have adjusted properly. So grateful for all the right things falling into place.

This is very difficult for me to write.

Heartbroken man is in the last stage of divorce process. He will lose custody of daughter and visitation rights. Now he wants to fight back before it’s too late.

I have no expectations of getting any help from anyone. Yet I just want to try. If anyone who is consider donating, I strongly encourage you to reach out to me before considering donating. I believe video chat may be the best option. I want to personally connect with you so I can show you proof. I have heard way too many stories of people who use this platform and they lie. It’s really heartbreaking. I am not that person. But I also think this is a great idea to personally thank you if you consider donating. (Please forgive me that I had to just use a picture of the sky. For the profile picture.)

if you have been reading all this, thank you for your patience. Let me just get straight to it.

As of yesterday, I just found out that my wife is fully committed to divorcing me, and is attempting to not only take full custody of my daughter, but she is also stripping visitation rights completely and is also trying to get spousal support as well when the divorce gets finalized.

That third thing was turning point in the hope that I had left in trying to save my marriage. but the part that’s the most heartbreaking, is that she was doing this secretly and was not revealing any information up until yesterday, I still had hope in saving my marriage. I prayed to God to see if he could save my marriage, and I surrendered my marriage to him. I made this prayer every day. I am just shocked that the person that I love the most in the world, not only does not want to be with me anymore, but also wants to destroy my life forever. I was just more shocked that I still had hope.

I don’t want to lose access to my daughter. I want to have an opportunity to defend myself in court before it’s too late.

I have lost everything, my job, my cell phone, my wallet, my ID, my rent money. And My wife. I have lost everything…

I have to find a way to respond as soon as possible. So I’m planning to do odd jobs day and night to come up with some sort of revenue to create a response.

They decapitated my stepdad who I was very close with in Mexico. This trauma led me to poor mental health for many years and it led to drinking to try to heal. And I would never open up to anyone.

I learned a valuable lesson in this marriage. I just wish that I was able to still keep my family together because I’m not the person My wife believes I am.

I have received therapy and this tragedy is in the past and I’m healed from it. Unfortunately, it’s not enough to save my marriage.

All I want is a chance to fight back.

I refused to believe that the divorce was going to happen. But it is.

all I want is an opportunity to try to take a stand for myself. I just did my third job interview with a well known Hospital. I’m hoping I get the job.

I’m planning to create some sort of miracle here through prayer and hard work and very little rest until I can get this done.

I would love to explain more details if you would like to connect with me. I just want you to know that if you do help that it’s truly appreciated, but I’m expecting to do this all on my own.

I love my daughter very much. She needs her father. It is not fair that I have been given False hope, and that I’m going be completely stripped away from even seeing her, and to believe that I still had a chance to save my marriage when ultimately my wife already moved on. And to have her future partner around my daughter and I don’t have a right to be in her life anymore? No. I refuse to let that happen. I have to respond.

please feel free to reach out to me. And I would love to explain more details. but that’s pretty much it. She thought I was just going to roll over and let everything go her way. It almost did. But I’m ready to change that narrative so this is why I’m going to start working nonstop until I can come up with these legal fees.

Thank you so so so much if you read this far. I am so sorry that I wrote so much crap. I would love to talk to you more about it. Thanks again.

Motion and Response: $650

Child Custody and Visits: $650

according to my resource that I’m working with right now, she said that’s just to scratch the surface. But these are my two main priorities. I will not ask for anything more other than what the goal has been posted as. I just believe these are the two most essential things.